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Q: Odd Question
asked by: Alexandra_O on January 31st, 2004
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My friend, who has only been with her boyfriend for a few months says she wants to have a baby with him. I would be somewhat fine with this if she had discussed it with her boyfriend before hand!! He doesn't know about this and what she will do is give him a hand job and then run to the bathroom and insert the ejaculation into herself. I keep telling her she will get pregnant this way and she says that she won't....Am I wrong?
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jezzica04
replied on January 31st, 2004
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Hmmmmm
Well I think that she can get pregnant from this. It just depends on how long the cum is exposed to the air before she puts it inside of her. It sounds like not that long so I would say there is a possibility of her getting pregnant if she keeps doing this. I think she believes she can get pregnant as well I mean why else would she keep doing this? Im really concerned about your friend b/c I dont want her to make a mistake and then regret it later. Try your best to talk to her and point out the the cons of this action. If you cant maybe you should warn the guy b/c he might not be ready for a child. Good luck and hope this helps. Wink
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Alexandra_O
replied on January 31st, 2004
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Thanks for the response Smile the ejaculation is exposed to air for literally 10 seconds and then she puts it in. I would warn her boyfriend...I'm just worried about our friendship but I think the possiblity of a child is much more important right now!
~alex
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sparklypixie12
replied on January 31st, 2004
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This is so bad! U must convince her to discuss things with him because its not fair to do that to a guy.If she wants a baby,she shud see what his feeligs r -either he'll agree or he will hate the idea.
If she thinks she wont get pregnant by the method shes using-why is she doing it?! Are they actually having sex or just doing hand jobs?
Liz x
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Alexandra_O
replied on January 31st, 2004
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They are having sex as well but she told me what she'll do is have unprotected sex with him until he is about to ejaculate and then he'll stop and pull out and she will give him a handjob until he ejaculates then quickly run to the washroom like 5-10 seconds and put it inside her vagina. I know this is horrible and really wrong I just don't know how to go about telling him...
~alex
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sparklypixie12
replied on January 31st, 2004
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Well....U need 2 weigh this up.I think u shud talk 2 her first & try 2 convince her 2 tell him.U may ruin your friendship if u go and tell him straight away but I suppose it all depends how good friends you are.
Its irresponsible on his part to not be using a condom because your friend cud get pregnant whether he ejaculates in her or not! I think its so unfair when a girl does this to a guy so try talking to her and maybe warn her that you might tell him.
Good luck!
Liz x
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Alexandra_O
replied on January 31st, 2004
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Oh I know she can still get pregnant if he doesnt ejaculate! Which is why she plans to tell him if she does in fact get pregnant that it must have been his pre-ejaculation (which it may well have been) but it would most likely be the ejaculation she had on her hands! I'm going to talk to her because I can't let this go on it would be so unfair to him and I would feel awful that I didn't tell him if I could have prevented an unwanted child. Thanks for responding liz Smile
~alex
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pInKpAnThEr
replied on January 31st, 2004
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Wow the tennis player scandel all over again. I think ur friend might have a security issue that needs some work- thats scary stuff!!
Love mol
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mommabear16
replied on February 1st, 2004
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*hits head*
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smith8500
replied on February 1st, 2004
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Hey
Wow, you friend has a problem. That isn't a good thing to do to anyone. You don't try to get preggy or try to get someone else preggy without discussing it....
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JillMarie
replied on February 1st, 2004
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Omg! What is this home artifical insemination? I'm sorry but tell her she is going to far! Could he sue her for misuse of his sperm?! Laughing
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on February 1st, 2004
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This is beyond ignorant. Something should be said. Give me a number ill call and tell him myself!!
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