i dont see how it should be his top priority tho just because one of his daughters is having a baby, that was her decision nothing to do with him, financially its on her and her bf.

But I think its wrong hes getting her other sister a new car when she could have the one they share and arcadia needs one bigger to fit a baby seat. So if you mean priority in that way then I agree! Lol

thats what I mean! :p and the fact that he knows she needs a bigger car for her child but wont let her trade it in. . .I don't see the problem with that

You think that's bad - I don't even have a car. Heck I don't even have a bicycle

i probably won't buy one until baby is about 5 months old and we move to alberta.

When we were kids my mom drove this ugly beater. It's all good. It didn't seem to scar us for life.

thats what i'm saying.A car is a car!

Try putting 2 infant car seats and 1 toddler seat in the back seat of am 97 plymoth colt not fun. Wish you luck on your situation arcadia. If I had an extra I would send it your way since we both live in good ol il. :d :d

.I haven't talked to you much &you already frustrate me. I do not expect anybody to give me anything. My point was that my sister is being a brat &that my father won't let me do what .I want to do with my own car, &that my parents are funding my sisters' $10,000 trip to .France for not even 2 weeks. I know that my son is my responsibility. I don't want things handed to me on a silver platter. If you read my posts, .I said that .I have tried to talk to my dad about trading in my car, he won't let me. &.I've also talked to him about cosigning for me on a car loan, since .I have no credit, but he won't do that either. I don't have any idea how to do anything of this- especially dealing with cars. So is it wrong to want a little bit of help? I didn't think so, but maybe .I was wrong. Do not twist my words, please.

&.Yes, .Tanya! We're like 94% sure it's going to be .Gabriel .Michael. Gabe for short.

&.I'd also like to add that it wasn't my parents who decided that the trip to france was a priority. It was my mother. My dad doesn't even want them to go. Seeing as its $10,000 &it's not even a 2 week trip. My sisters both got jobs so they could pay for the trip on their own, that was the deal. They have a year to save up, &they had 2 years prior to this that they've supposed to be saving for it. That's the only way they were going to be allowed to go. &.They haven't even been putting money away for it. They get their paychecks &won't hand them over to my parents, &my parents just let it slide &are not paying for the trip with their own money. &.When my dad won the money, my mom twisted his arm &she took $5,000 of it for their trip. That wasn't my dad's decision. He said he wanted to use that money for getting my sister &.I vehicles.




I'm done trying to jusity myself, though. You don't understand what .I'm getting at, &what the whole situation is. &.I'm sure you'll just try to twist my words some more to make me seem like a snotty brat. Which .I am not. I'm regretting even writing this topic to begin with.

I'm sorry if I offended you hun! I didnt' mean to,i was trying to stick up for you!

it's not wrong to want help. But I don't see how you have a right to expect it, or become angry when you don't get it.

If my advice hasn't been helpful, please feel free to disregard it.

.No not you, .Mel!! I lub yoo<3

oh ok,wub you too! <3 <3 <3

Have you tried to get a car loan on your own? This was a long time ago, but I got my first loan on my own with no one to co-sign and I had no credit at the time. It's worth a try, right?

When nick and I moved to nh we left my jeep cherokee in az and took his truck with us. He bought a new car once we got settled here and now I have the pickup truck and even though I can turn off the passenger airbag there is no way i'm putting my baby up front with me. I'm pretty much trapped at home unless I tell him in advance that I want the car for the day. In nick's defense, I could've had a new car by now but i'm waiting for a specific model (the jeep partriot!) and it's not out yet.

.Again, you apparently cannot read. I do not expect anybody to give me anything. I am not angry because my daddy won't buy me a car. I am angry because he won't let me do what .I wish with my own car that .I have now. Please do not reply to my topics anymore if you cannot learn to read &understand what .I am clearly saying.

.I haven't! I always thought you had to have credit to get a loan! Maybe .I'll try that, too. Thanks .Bridg. I'm just worried because my job pays decent, but it's really minimal hours under doctor's orders, &.I'm only allowed to work until .January or .February! Bah! So .I'm just worried that once .I'm not working &.Gabe is born, .Chris will be stuck paying my loan payments &.I really really really don't want that, ya know? But .I'm definitely going to look into getting a car loan on my own!

I dont think tim horton is getting the point (no offense) its not about her dad buying her stuff. Or the france trip really.

Its about her and her sister sharing a car which is too small to fit a baby car seat in.

But her dad is choosing to buy a new car for her sister instead of her.

When her sister would be perfectly fine with the car they already have.

Yeh its upto her dad what he decides to do. But surely if u have 2 kids, one who is fine driving a car you already bought, and the other who needs a bigger one to fit a car seat -she should get the new bigger one right? Her sister is just being a selfish brat imo.

Arcadia you've got 3 sisters then?

Thank you, .Allie! Exactly. I don't see how it would be any different to just give my sister .Kayla the car she already drives like her own, &get me a 4 door car. When she is likely to get a 4 door car, which is what .I need, &.I'll be stuck with mine. I don't see the difference, especially when she already thinks that my car is her own. &.When .I know .I'd be more than willing to help make the payments on &start paying my own insurance on a car for me, since .I will be moving out soon.. &.I know .Kayla won't pay for jack caca.



&. I have 2 sisters! They're 15 (almost 16) &17.. Only sixteen months apart. They're hell's angels, .I swear to god, lmao. I'm not saying .I haven't been spoiled, because .I know .I was when .I was younger, but the level of their spoiling is ridiculous. I guess .I'm just tired of them being whiny little teenaged brats &getting everything they want without question. I'm seriously so glad .I'm having a son, lol.

exactly what I was thinking.Its like my sister.She use to always use this one sweater (nightmare before christmas)i had and I barely wore it,but I loved it.My mom told me since she wore it all the time she would buy me another one.My sister got pissed and was like "well she already has one". She just wanted a new one for herself and leave me the old raggedy one she used!.Kids. . .

there is no need to insult my intellegence.

You are angry because your father is forking out money to your siblings, and you feel like you are more entitled to his help because you have a child.

If your father gives your sister the car and gets you a 4-door, that will cost money. You are expecting your father to spend money on you, and are angry that he might spend it on another sibling instead. It's not complicated.

im sorry girl but you really arent understanding the situation!! Honestly you arent. That doesnt mean im saying you're stupid cos you arent! But you dont understand what she means........

Im hoping this baba is another boy too! Haha