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Q: Stopping Pregnancy If So
asked by: basanta on November 13th, 2006
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I had sex with my girlfriend almost one month back. She says that day was nearly 14 to 17 days after her period started. She was virgin and we started the sex stuff for a while, she said it was painful so after 8-9 attempts(here attempts mean my organ entered her organ only 8-9 times) to take my sexual organ into hers, we withdrew the sex process for that moment. I dint cum neither inside nor outside, I even didn't pre-ejaculated, as we just tried for around 1 minute because she said it was very painful.

Later that day in the evening she was again interested so I two or three times entered my sexual organ into hers, she said it wasn't that painful as earlier. Fearing that I might ejaculate faster I took off my sexual organ and masturbated outside, completely not in touch with her genitals. I threw my sperm outside in a piece of cotton, I rubbed all my sperm completely two three times. My sexual organ was kind of not erect because I had just cummed, so immediately after my ejaculation after cleaning my organ with cotton two three times, with my sexual organ not even erect and a bit soft and weary I attempted to enter my sexual organ into hers. I pushed for a while 14-15 times ,slowly my organ started getting erect and I felt her vagina was a little moist and it became easier to penetrate her but she told it was getting painful so I withdrew. I dint cum the second time, may be I would have cummed again, but I stopped lot earlier before that stage. When I withdrew I saw that there were two spots of blood in the bedsheet, that might have happened because she was virgin.

I dint use any contraceptives neither did she, are there any chances of her getting pregnant ??? I am afraid I pushed the remains of sperms of my first ejaculation into her vagina, which I am not sure because I had cleaned my organ after first ejaculation nicely with a cotton cloth.

Please help me as to how can I find out whether she is pregnant or not. She told she hasn't had period till now, but she also told that her normal period routine is generally one and half months that is she often has period only in one and half months or more generally.

In case she is pregnant what can I do to avoid/stop this pregnancy if so ? She has not used any emergency contraceptive pills or etc.

Do help me

open boy
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AlliE_18
replied on November 13th, 2006
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Firstly why didnt u use a condom??

Second theres a chance shes pregnant from pre cum the first time, I dunno about the second time cos if u cleaned it would that be effective? Unless u actually washed it? Also some coulda come out while u had sex the last time. If it happened a month ago then its too late to take emergency contraception like the morning after pill...Obviously. So abortion would be the way to 'stop this pregnancy'. And thats her decision not yours. You should buy a pregnancy test to find out.
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Becky
replied on November 13th, 2006
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There is a definate chance of pregnancy if you had unprotected sex

please read this for more helpful info

http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic76598. Html
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basanta
replied on November 13th, 2006
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What could be my immediate action ??
Which methods of abortion would be better ?
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basanta
replied on November 13th, 2006
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What would be the cost of different possibilites of abortion in general ?
Will other people know if she has surgery ?
How much rest will she need if she goes surgery ?
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AlliE_18
replied on November 13th, 2006
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You should post that stuff in the 'abortion' forum, not here. A lot of us are against abortion.
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megums1211
replied on November 13th, 2006
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basanta wrote:
what would be the cost of different possibilites of abortion in general ?

Will other people know if she has surgery ?

How much rest will she need if she goes surgery ?



...................... Evil or Very Mad take this topic somewhere else..... Somewhere that life isn't valued.... B/c in here (the pregnancy forum) we value life! This isn't the "ended pregnancy forum"... It's called "pregnancy forum" for a reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!! Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad
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16 And A Mom To Be
replied on November 13th, 2006
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#1- why was a condom not used, it helps the woman exspecially if it is her first time because there is lubrication, and it will kill most of the chance for pregnancy.
#2- you cannot usually tell if you have pre ejacualtion, any one correct me if I am wrong.
#3- she can get pregnant if it is her first time or her 50th time.
#4- if symptoms appear take a pregnancy test.
#5- also you should really talk to other poeple because like the post above, pregnancy is valued in these forums, most of us are expectang mothers and I don't even wan't to think about woman having aboritions. It's wrong in my eyes. I am fighting like hell to have a succesful pregancy not just giving up an inncocent life for a mnistake.
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