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Q: Do Men With Low Sex Drive Generally Enjoy Sex In the Moment?
asked by: frustrated189 on November 11th, 2006
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My boyfriend has a long history of low libido but when we do have sex his body stills responds - he gets aroused, seems to enjoy the moment and ejaculates. My greatest fear though is that he is only having sex for my sake - that though his body responds, in his mind he is just "going through the motions". Do men with low libido still generally enjoy sex once they get going? Is it common for them to orgasm? I've discussed this with him and asked him to not do things he doesn't want to - that this hurts me more than not being interested. Still, I am never sure and it bothers be greatly. Any adivce or similar experience to share?

I am frustrated, confused and honestly, I have alot of trouble not taking this personally.
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Kia
replied on November 12th, 2006
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Mine does Smile
once aroused, he enojys it and always ejaculates.
He just doesn't have the drive to "want sex all the time", so it usually means if I want it I have to initiate things and try to get him aroused - this can take a short while sometimes, but yes once he gets going he enjoys it.

Low sex drive doesn't mean a dislike of sex - and so doesn't mean he won't like it.
I just means he doesn't have the "get up and go" that a lot of men have.
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frustrated189
replied on November 12th, 2006
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Thank you so much kia. I am pleased to hear your response. I am having a lot of trouble finding detailed information on male low libido - just tonnes on women. It is great to get a sense of what other's experiences have been. I know my boyfriend and I really need to sit down and talk about it, so we understand each other - I don't want to push though and alot is going on for him right now.

Any other comments and insights appreciated.

Cheers.
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