Deebaby you make very good points haha. I believe that if someone is using a sex toy for masturbation like ... 24/7 that's the only way that somebody should be jealous. But like maia said everyone masturbates I mean come on now. It's silly to be jealous of using a vibrator occasionally because not every couple has sex all the time.

And like you said earlier, guys and their porn is totally different because it's masturbating to another person.

I think the only way a vibrator should cause a guy to feel jealous is if a girl's refusing sex all the time to a guy but always masturbating ... Then that's different. Otherwise it's a little silly to feel jealous because of that.

I doubt anyone will check this... but here goes anyway.

I am a dedicated and skillful lover. in all my past relationships and even casual flings I have always felt confident of my "performance" in bed.

my current girlfriend is very challenging to bring to an orgasm. I go down on her for literally well over an hour sometimes and she doesn't finish. let's say 50% of the time she does finish.

this weekend I watched her use her rabbit... with my finger inside her... and within about 10 minutes (because she drew it out) she had the most insane orgasm I've ever seen anyone have.

it is not possible for *ANYONE* to duplicate that... and this I realize... but when I felt how hard she came I now feel very very discouraged.

and seriously... I'm not a braggart or some deluded guy. I know that I really am good in bed... and I realize that I *shouldn't* be jealous in theory... but if you saw the countless hours I put into pleasing that woman then watched some little machine do it 100x better than I ever could... well... I think you see what I'm getting at.

she may have had one faster and it may have ben good,but its so much better when its with someone and not a piece of plastic and its also better whe you work for it. You know boring it is to sit there with a vibrator for 5 min get off and thats it?No foreplay, no kissing,no fun,no tickles. . .?its not as great!

my gf got one and she told me about it and i was fine till i saw it im a pretty good size but damn this thing was big as hell at least twice the size of me and now i cant get her off cuz of her effin vibrator e have sexy maybe once a week now but she uses that thing a few times a day i know shes had sex before but man her ex's dick must have been big too for that thing to fit

my gf got one and she told me about it and i was fine till i saw it im a pretty good size but damn this thing was big as hell at least twice the size of me and now i cant get her off cuz of her effin vibrator e have sexy maybe once a week now but she uses that thing a few times a day i know shes had sex before but man her ex's dick must have been big too for that thing to fit

i found my self in this situation im in a long distance relationship and my partner suggested i get a toy as i didnt own one .... i was hesistant but after he kept bringing it up in conversations i decide i would buy one when i told him instead of him being happy and excited about it like how he was when we spoke about it i got the 'JEALOUSY' reaction! and that was just over telling him i ordered it and its arrived.... im utterly confused now lol.... cant understand why he wanted me to get so bad and now i have it he is acting like this! just thought id share and maybe get some views on it .....