Deebaby you make very good points haha. I
believe that if someone is using a sex toy
for masturbation like ... 24/7 that's the
only way that somebody should be jealous.
But like maia said everyone masturbates I
mean come on now. It's silly to be
jealous of using a vibrator occasionally
because not every couple has sex all the
time.
And like you said earlier, guys and their
porn is totally different because it's
masturbating to another person.
I think the only way a vibrator should
cause a guy to feel jealous is if a girl's
refusing sex all the time to a guy but
always masturbating ... Then that's
different. Otherwise it's a little silly
to feel jealous because of that.
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insecure
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 07-23-07 20:05pm
I doubt anyone will check this... but here
goes anyway.
I am a dedicated and skillful lover. in
all my past relationships and even casual
flings I have always felt confident of my
"performance" in bed.
my current girlfriend is very challenging
to bring to an orgasm. I go down on her
for literally well over an hour sometimes
and she doesn't finish. let's say 50% of
the time she does finish.
this weekend I watched her use her
rabbit... with my finger inside her... and
within about 10 minutes (because she drew
it out) she had the most insane orgasm
I've ever seen anyone have.
it is not possible for *ANYONE* to
duplicate that... and this I realize...
but when I felt how hard she came I now
feel very very discouraged.
and seriously... I'm not a braggart or
some deluded guy. I know that I really am
good in bed... and I realize that I
*shouldn't* be jealous in theory... but if
you saw the countless hours I put into
pleasing that woman then watched some
little machine do it 100x better than I
ever could... well... I think you see
what I'm getting at.
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Willa Weintraub
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 3399 Location: The Beach!
Thanks: 30
Thanked:46
Posted: 07-24-07 10:25am
insecure
wrote:
I doubt anyone will check
this... but here goes anyway.
I am a dedicated and skillful lover. in
all my past relationships and even casual
flings I have always felt confident of my
"performance" in bed.
my current girlfriend is very challenging
to bring to an orgasm. I go down on her
for literally well over an hour sometimes
and she doesn't finish. let's say 50% of
the time she does finish.
this weekend I watched her use her
rabbit... with my finger inside her... and
within about 10 minutes (because she drew
it out) she had the most insane orgasm
I've ever seen anyone have.
it is not possible for *ANYONE* to
duplicate that... and this I realize...
but when I felt how hard she came I now
feel very very discouraged.
and seriously... I'm not a braggart or
some deluded guy. I know that I really am
good in bed... and I realize that I
*shouldn't* be jealous in theory... but if
you saw the countless hours I put into
pleasing that woman then watched some
little machine do it 100x better than I
ever could... well... I think you see
what I'm getting
at.
she may have had one
faster and it may have ben good,but its so
much better when its with someone and not
a piece of plastic and its also better whe
you work for it. You know boring it is to
sit there with a vibrator for 5 min get
off and thats it?No foreplay, no
kissing,no fun,no tickles. . .?its not as
great!
