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Q: I Made It Clear!
asked by: Becky on November 11th, 2006
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Well i'm seeing robbie again tonight but he was texting me being a tad too flirty so I told him straight- I want to take it really slow so if you are looking for sex then keep looking cause you won't find it here! Lol.

He was so cool with it. He apologised if he had come across as flirty and said that is the last thing on his mind right now. He is interested in geting to know me as a person first. I told him I don't want to let him in my house and I don't want to feel under pressure.

What do u think? I'm hoping he means it
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arcadia
replied on November 11th, 2006
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I'm glad you told him! From what you've said about him, he sounds like a real gentlemen &.I think for now he can be trusted to hold up to things he says. Of course .I'd still keep an eye &ear open, looking for those tell-tale signs of a dog! Lol, but as long as you told him flat out, then he has no reason to try anything sneaky or nasty with you. &.If he does, then you know he wasn't sincere!
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Becky
replied on November 11th, 2006
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What are the signs? Please tell me!

I haven't dated since I was 16! Thats 6 years ago Shocked
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arcadia
replied on November 11th, 2006
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Basically if he gets too flirty or too touchy, even after you've told him you aren't ready for a sexual relationship. Or if he ever makes comments about how he'd like to sleep with you or creepy things like that. Lol! Especially watch out if he get's too touchy. He doesn't come across as the type of guy who would disrespect you in any way, though. So .I think you're safe!
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sandyallen
replied on November 11th, 2006
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Good for you beckster! Stay that way until you know that you are ready!
Like I said before, it is difficult being single after being married or just being with someone for soo long! Just be careful of wolves in sheeps clothing. You are a smart person! Hold your head high. You are the boss now and you and your children come 1st.
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