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Q: a List of Things to Talk About

asked by: mommabear16 on January 30th, 2004

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Okay.....I sorta need some adivice....And I also need to vent....Again...

1- my brother is six years old....He'll be seven in april....But anyway for the past three weeks he has been bleeding whenever he goes poo...My mom took him to the doc. Last week and the doc said that if its not better by this week were going to have to take him to a specailist out of town. He does have a hemeroid....But it could be something else. My mom and he are gone right now cause he has to get blood taken. Okay well im stressed about this cause my poor brother is sick and I could go into labor while there gone.

2- I can't keep my mind in school. I'v got so much on my mind I cant consintraite and when the teacher asks me a question im just like..What?? And I feel stupid.

3- yesterday I found out that steven (my boyfriend) has no legal rights so I had to tell him (cause were not married).....He's mad about that..But not only that I had to tell him that the doc. Said that the baby can't stay the night over there until he's six months old...And he's really really really mad about that. I know his freaking mother is going to start crap..(sometiems I feel like kill her she is such a b*tch) I dont need anymore stress in my life..I just feel like telling her to stfu and let me do what I think is best for my child. But I can't cause then that would start more stuff....Also, my boyfriend is getting mad cause I dont want to mess around right now...We kiss and thats about it.....He's 17 and sorta in that immature stage right now and he just doesnt understand and stuff...

4- my sister who is 8 hates me

Replies(9)

JillMarie

replied on January 30th, 2004

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I'm sorry things are going so rough! We all have our times though! Who come the baby cant stay with him until he is 6 months old?

mommabear16

replied on January 30th, 2004

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Because i'm breastfeeding...And its winter and its not good for a new baby to be going back and forth back and forth

babyrae

replied on January 30th, 2004

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Oh im soo sorry! It sounds like ur having it rough right now.. The best thing for u would be to rest and not get stressed out... For ur brother.. Just be there for him and hopefully it isnt anything serious, as for your boyfriend, he cant get mad at u for this, its society's law not urs and its not ur fault the doctor told u the baby cant stay there till he's 6 months.. And as for his mom.. Its not her baby and she cant get all uptight about it.. Its urs and the babys gonna go by what u want best for it.. I hope u feel better and im sorry to hear what a crappy situation ur in right now.. But we're all here for u Smile

PregnaJordan

replied on January 30th, 2004

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So if ur not married, the father has no legal rights ??? Thats bad for you I guess in ur sit. Right? I dunno the whole thing, but if thats the way it is, im gonna jump for joy! B/c I dont want chris to have a thing to do with jadyn
jordan

insurancegirl

replied on January 30th, 2004

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ERICA1121

replied on January 30th, 2004

Experienced User

Actually, I dont know how the father does not have any rights becuase my mother and father were divorced when they went to court and my dad got custody of me. If dna proves that the father is indeed the biologial father of your child then he does have some parental rights. It does not have anything to do with being married or not. If that were the case lol they'd take the baby from the mom cause she wasn't married lol. That dont make sense to me. ~ erica.

mommabear16

replied on January 30th, 2004

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Because they were married first erica. Since steven and I arent married and never were married he doesnt have any legal rights. Now, he is going to be listed as the father on the birth certificat...As the bio father. Steven can see the baby whenever he wants. Im going to go over there and he's gonna come over here...The only thing he cant do is stay the night until he's 6 months old. It's really not that big of a deal....But....Ok

pInKpAnThEr

replied on January 31st, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Keep your head up, chica.. Things will work out, if you give them time..If that doesn't heal things, mayb its not all meant to b. I've been goin through a lot too but I guess everything happens for a reason....

(hmm..I think I just spoke to myself..Cuz something jus clicked)

love mol

smith8500

replied on January 31st, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Chin up chic! You are strong and remember, you must do what is right for your child. No matter who gets mad! You have to look out for that baby!
Always,
chanda

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