The morning after pill is actually a lot safer than an abortion. The most common morning after pill is called "plan b". You can usually get it at a local planned parenthood, or health clinic. In some cases you may get it from a pharmacists as well.
In some people there are side effects, but with the plan b, it is usually a bit of nausea, but thatâs it. In this forum, I would not really recommend getting an abortion. Besides abortions are a lot more painful, and strenuous on your health. I would recommend the pill asap, for it may not be as effective, as the days pass.
We are not here to judge you, but you might want to invest in some birth control, so you donât have to worry about getting pregnant. Sperm will not hurt you, but it is just more safe for you to use condoms. If you are fully aware of your partner and his lifestyle, and know that you are the only one he is sleeping with, having him ejaculate is your preference. Just make sure that you are fully protected birth control wise, but even on the pill it is not 100% effective. Good luck with your decision. Take care of yourself.

-corie