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Q: Retraction-questions

asked by: echo_12 on November 9th, 2006

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Ok, finally I found a place were I can ask a question I have dwelled on for about a year.

I am 18, and a male.
This is a very embaressing question.
I have a problem, everytime I have/want to have sex I can never have oral sex because I am afraid to show my penis. I always put on a condem before, but whenever the girl wants to have oral I try to avoid it and just have sex. The reason behind this is because when I get an erection my foreskin does not ever retract. I have to pull my foreskin back before I get the erection, however when ever I am with a girl, I don't have time to pull it back because as soon as I pull down my pants I have an erection. Why is it that when I get an erection my foreskin doesn't pull back al the way?

I masterbate form time to time, and even when I masterbate, I cannot retract my foreskin because when I do retract it, my head is so hypersensitive that it hurts with the slightest touch.

I guess I was late with the whole "retraction" of the foreskin, and I feel it is becoming a problem and making me very self consious. How does the hypersensitivity go away and how do I make my foreskin retract with an erection, do I have to change my masterbating ways or what?
Btw- I called a mens hotline in my city fo men, and they said that wait a few years, but I can't wait, I have been waiting so long and I want to feel how oral sex feels!! Please help!

Replies(3)

Rocky52

replied on November 9th, 2006

New User

Don't worry mate, i'm in the same boat as u so ur not the only one. Alotta guy's foreskin does not retract, your foreskin will be tight and thats why its difficult when u have an errection. It can retract when your flacid though right? If so i'm the exact same, but that doesn't mean you should be ashamed. Try this (it'll take time) - have a warm bath (don't try it without being in warm water.. Its not as effective and could damage foreskin), when you have been in the bath for a while take both your index fingers and pull on your foreskin - not with strength! Or else you could tear it and be in a worse situation. But just pull slowly til you feel pressure, hold it for about 5 minutes and let go. Do this 3 times a week for a month or so and you'll eventually feel it easier to retract. It may not work 100% but its worth a shot. I've had oral sex without retracting and its just as good in my opinion. Don't be embarassed, be proud of what you have and best of luck to u.

echo_12

replied on November 9th, 2006

New User

Haha yea good to hear many of uus are in the same boat.
But about that question, I can retract when it is flaccid. I don't really know what you mean by the hot bath thing? Is it when it's erect or do you mean if I couldnt even pull it back when it was limp?

Anywho, I am of course proud of what I got, but I want to show it looking good. It's like a sexual massage to me, I want the "client" to like what they see, not only what they feel.

Thanks for your imput.

Rocky52

replied on November 10th, 2006

New User

Sorry I never explained properly, I was quite tired. Yeah once your in the bath, flacid or errect it doesn't matter (easier when flacid).. Pull the tips of your foreskin with both your index fingers until its pressure but not sore. Hold it in this position for for a few minutes and let go. You can do this as many times as you wish, best trying it for a few months...Your foreskin will eventually slacken a bit and itll be more comfortable to retract during erection. Time and patience is the key here, good luck

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