Atleast you have someone to take your mind off of .Neil from time to time. Hopefully .Robbie is really the nice guy he seems to be! Good luck and i'm glad you're getting out & having some fun!

Thank you. I mean don't get me wrong I would never get back with him- we're not good together anymore but its not that easy to just fall out of love with someone

I completely understand babe. Kris and I have been having some problems lately and I wish I could *just* forget about him and move on! But it's sooo hard.

Awwh .Bec! I'm glad he's a decent guy. He seems really sweet. I'd say, if you aren't sure of where you want it to go, let him know. Tell him you do enjoy spending time with him, but you aren't ready for anything serious at all.

&.Devon!! Is that in southern .England? My cousins have a timeshare in .Hope .Cove (which is in .Devon) if you know where that is. It's beautiful down there. We stayed there for a week a few years back when we were on vacation in .Europe!

I'd love a european vacay about now... I'm positively dying to set my feet on scottish soil...Of course I want to see london, paris, zurich, nice, etc...But I really really want to see scotland.

Scotland is beeeeautiful! I go there every year, we have a lodge up in the highlands.. It's gorgeous when it snows, I love it. I've never been abroad except to .France a couple of times, so i'd love to travel across .Europe, and visit the states of course!

I'm glad you've found such a nice guy, .Beck, just make sure you don't rush into anything.. I'm sure you'll know when you're ready to take things further with him.. For now just enjoy going out and having fun!

Sometimes the easiest way to get over someone is finding someone new.. You will probably always love neil somewhat, I mean he gave you your kids... But dont worry things will start looking better

I pretty much agree with everything that people have said! It sounds like he is a nice guy. You and .Neil will always have a special bond because of the kids. You never lose the feeling for someone but sometimes it does not grow when you lose the respect for them and like oh mommy said sometimes the only way to get over one person is to meet someone else that treats you right and treats your kids right. It is difficult to be single after being married or with someone for so long. I understand, I have been there! If you are not ready just talk to him, they generally know though.
All of the best to you and your kids!