That's not a miscarriage.
Did he actually say a miscarriage?
I think he might be pulling your leg or something.

That close to a due date would definitely be a stillbirth versus a miscarriage, babe. Well, i'm not sure what to tell you. It's awful that that happened, and i'm sure that all you can do for your friend is be there for him and talk to him if he wants to let it out. Make sure not to throw yourself into the issue, though; you want to be supportive, but make sure that you don't put the burden all on yourself.

I'm very sorry that happened, and I hope that everyone is doing alright.

- taya xxxxx

I hope he isn't joking because that wouldn't be funny at all. That would be a still born, not a miscarriage.

No, he wouldn't joke about this kinda thing...Maybe it was a stillbirth i'm not sure but he wasn't lying...Whatever happened, they lost the baby girl.

Thanks guys

I'm sorry to hear that. That makes me wanna cry. He's in my prayers

If he is such a good friend why wouldnt' he tell you about the pregnancy??? Was he ashamed that she was pregnant? Seems kinda odd

If its for real,i'm sorry about their loss.I know it can;t be any walk in the park.Poor thing.They're in my thoughts!

Aw thats sad. Im not surprised if a guy used the wrong word miscarriage instead of still birth...You know what they are like

Hopefully u can talk to him sometime and ask what caused that to happen... Like gen said tho, if he's good friends with you, how come you didnt know his g/f was pregnant?

Well, we're good friends but I don't get to see him often as he doesn't live close to me...I guess he was a little ashamed about it cos his girlfriend is still young...

And yeah, I think he got miscarriage and still birth muddled a bit! I don't think guys really know the difference...

Thanks for all your kindness guys

Sorry nikki, but I think there is something wrong with that whole picture.

I think you have been told incorrect information because no-one who has been in that position would mix up the big difference between stillbirth and miscarriage.
It's not as if it was border line, end of first tri or begining of second tri. He's saying that it was a completely full term pregnancy - so no, no-one in that situation would mix those up.

I don't know if he is trying to get sympathy from you or something, but whatever it is, it doesn't ring true.

Not to offend you hunni, I just don't think he has told you the truth.

That is how I felt too, but if I am wrong...I am so sorry.

I'm so glad i've already had my baby. The original post would have freaked me out so bad.

Nikki, are you sure he said miscarriage and not stillbirth? Maybe he said stillbirth and you heard wrong, or just forgot what he said and assumed he said miscarriage? I would hate to think anyone would lie or joke about something so serious...

For g-d sake guys, he's not lying or joking or f****** around! What sort of sick person would do that? He told me that it was a miscarriage but he texted later and said it was a still birth. Thing is, he wasn't even with his girlfriend when she was going through it so i'm not sure he even knew exactly what had happened himself...I don't think his gf wanted to talk about it much after it happened.

Nevermind, just forget it ~ caca happens.

No need to be p*ssy - we're not doubting you, just doubting the person who told you.

I'm not pi*sy, just that some of you guys are saying that he's joking and stuff and it's not true, i'm trying to justify a point.

Ok you say he wasn't actually with her at the time??
Maybe she's the one who's trying to get sympathy from him??

I dunno, hunni, but what I do know is that no-one losing a child for real would mix up miscarriage or still birth (not even *most* guys).

Argh, I dunno anymore...I'm gonna question it more.

Why wouldnt' he be there for the delivery of his own child???