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Q: Dont Really Know What to Do

asked by: oliviathomas on November 8th, 2006

New User

Uh oh...Well im not yet sure if im pregnant but today ken, my boyfriend, broke up with me because we were having a ridiculous fight about food. Which is retarded because he knows i've been having mood swings.

He's being such an .I dont know what to do, because we've done this before and he always comes crying back to me.I dont know what to do, if I am pregnant I dont want my baby to be fatherless but I hate going thru this time and time again and its so stressful!!! He's such a child. I dont know if I should take him back, or if I should just say im done forever, but I do not want my baby not to have a father, and I know if I was pregnant and didnt take him back he'd try to take away my baby. He's threatened that before, he said he'd get it taken away because I "wouldnt" be able to take care of it. Yeah i'm 15, but so is he! As if he would be able to take care of it anymore than I would. And i'd be its mother. Just dont know what to do, because I know he's enough to try and take away my baby.Ohmylord what am I gonna do?

I wish I wasnt so stupid.

Last edited by oliviathomas on November 8th, 2006 04:15 PM; edited 1 time in total

Replies(12)

Sail Away

replied on November 8th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

It sounds like you need to ditch him...Your baby might be fatherless but I think it's better off anyways Shocked

your really young, so if you plan on keeping this baby I consider the both of you grow up fast..And if he takes your baby he'll go to jail. That's illegal.

oliviathomas

replied on November 8th, 2006

New User

Wow I didnt know it was illegal,
but ughgh. I dont know why we were stupid enough
to ever have unprotected sex
what kind of retards to that at 15!!!!
I just hope im not pregnant,
but I have a lot of symptoms and my period reeeelly
should have been here by now.
And your right, it would be better off,
he's never treated me very good.
I know if I am pregnant thats going to cause me to
grow up in a flash, but I am just so angry
that he is so childish and has to do such ridiculous things

arcadia

replied on November 8th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

You should take a test so you can know for sure.

oliviathomas

replied on November 8th, 2006

New User

arcadia wrote:

you should take a test so you can know for sure.

getting one today at 6:30, but not too sure if it will be right
or it might be too soon, because at the clinic they use these weird
pregnancy test that are like little pieces of cardboard in a wrapper.
It detects the hgc or w/e in your pee, but it might not work until
later...Like, more days after conception, cuz it might be too soon.

Kia

replied on November 8th, 2006

Supporter

If your period is late it is not too soon.

arcadia

replied on November 8th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

If your period is late, it *should* be able to show up positive if you are pregnant. Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

oliviathomas

replied on November 8th, 2006

New User

Ahhh and last night when I was brushing my teeth my gums started to bleed!
Is this a sign of pregnancy?
Its never happened to me before, but I think I heard before that it is a sign, or symptom...
Shocked

wr17

replied on November 8th, 2006

Experienced User

15 year old drama...Wow. Go take a test and find out for sure. If you're not, please get on some form of birth control because the world is sooo not ready for you to reproduce lol.

oliviathomas

replied on November 9th, 2006

New User

Yay! Got my period today, what a relief! Going to pick up some pills later...
Just thought i'd let everyone know. Lol, how lucky am i...
Unless theres something wrong with me or ken, we must have some
guardian angel watching over us!!!

diamondsz

replied on November 9th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

oliviathomas wrote:

yay! Got my period today, what a relief! Going to pick up some pills later...

Just thought i'd let everyone know. Lol, how lucky am i...

Unless theres something wrong with me or ken, we must have some
guardian angel watching over us!!!

i dont think there was a guardian angel or else you would be without a boyfriend, as far as im concerned to need to ditch him!

I dont let anyone walk on me,never will im not a doormat so why are you being one?

AlliE_18

replied on November 9th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

oliviathomas wrote:

im glad you got your period! Do you seriously want to be with a guy who makes u feel like that tho? Threatens to get your baby taken off u...Doesn't sound like a nice guy. Like everyone else said, I think you should ditch him.

oliviathomas

replied on November 9th, 2006

New User

If it were easy as that...
I donno, we've just built a lot with each other
and im going thru a lot right now
and hes helped me thru the worst times.
I think he only says stupid stuff when hes mad

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