Is He Hitting My Cervix?!? Posted: 11-08-06 15:43pm
I have been with my partner now for two
and a half years, previous to him I was
sexually active and never had any
problems.
Since being with my current partner I have
experienced what can only can be described
as a sharp stabbing pain when he is fully
in me - which i'm guessing is him hitting
my cervix? This pain is felt in my lower
abdomen and actually makes me cry out in
pain - it doesn't linger, it goes until he
fully enters me again.
However, we have tried to prevent this by
controlling him (ie - only going half-way
in), however the problem with this is that
I can't feel anything at all. So one
way really hurts and the other way makes
me want to fall asleep!
We've tried different positions but it
doesn't make any difference.
Im really at a loss as I used to really
enjoy sex but now I dread it and I just
want it to be over. It's getting so
bad that we can go months without ever
touching each other.
I'm 22 and my partner is 25 so we are both
still very young and should be enjoying
this experience, is there anyone that can
help us or point us in the right
direction?!?!
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wr17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Oct 2004 Posts: 287
Posted: 11-09-06 02:48am
Its supposed to feel good when he hits
your cervix...
I don't know what the problem is. Maybe
he is hitting it too hard? Have you
talked to your gyno about this?
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luckielorz2001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Midlands
Posted: 11-09-06 08:07am
wr17
wrote:
its supposed to feel good
when he hits your cervix...
I don't know what the problem is. Maybe
he is hitting it too hard? Have you
talked to your gyno about
this?
feel good, are you sure?!?!?!
I havent been to a gyno; I havent even
been to my doctor yet. Ill go once I
have explored evey other avenue. Im not
good with doctors and ill only go if its
vital, at the moment I would like to see
what other people think and if other women
suffer from this first before I start
wasting my doctors time with something
that could be solved easily from some
patience and carefulness.
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tex789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 29
Re: Is He Hitting My Cervix?!? Posted: 11-09-06 16:27pm
luckielorz2001
wrote:
...
Since being with my current partner I have
experienced what can only can be described
as a sharp stabbing pain when he is fully
in me - which i'm guessing is him hitting
my cervix? This pain is felt in my lower
abdomen and actually makes me cry out in
pain - it doesn't linger, it goes until he
fully enters me again.
...
does he have a rather long penis size?
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alexa84
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2006 Posts: 654 Location: The Good Ole Alabama
Posted: 11-09-06 16:54pm
I had this problem with my ex. I dreaded
having sex with him. But unfurtantly we
broke up soon after because he got mad
because I wouldnt have sex with him all
the time. And he even knew it was
hurting me. I went to the doc thinking I
had an infection but I didnt. My doc
couldnt give me a full explaination. So
I couldnt really tell ya anything except
for my experience. Maybe its his size.
My ex was about 8-9 inches so that could
have been the problem. Lol
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GUEST120206
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2006 Posts: 31
Posted: 11-10-06 01:26am
I agree with alexa, he may be too long.
My man has that problem and when we are at
it I have the same pain. But I suck it up
usually, after a while it actually starts
to feel kinda good. Haven't had good sex
like that in a while, i'm almost 36 weeks
pregnant. If its not his length, talk to
your gyno. It could be something else,
medically. Good luck
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luckielorz2001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Midlands
Posted: 11-10-06 03:32am
guest120206
wrote:
i agree with alexa, he may
be too long. My man has that problem and
when we are at it I have the same pain.
But I suck it up usually, after a while it
actually starts to feel kinda good.
Haven't had good sex like that in a while,
i'm almost 36 weeks pregnant. If its not
his length, talk to your gyno. It could
be something else, medically. Good
luck
i was hoping that was it. My partner is
bigger than previous partners and since
this problem has only ever occured with
him im beginning to think it may be his
size, in which case it will just take a
bit of time and carefulness to get it to
be enjoyable.
Im going to see my gp tonight for my
yearly mot so I will speak to her about it
all while im there (much to my dread!),
but I dont think she will be able to give
me any more advice then what I have got on
here.
Thanks alot, youve all really helped, and
put my mind at rest!!
Xx
p.S good luck with the baby!!!
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tex789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 29
Posted: 11-10-06 16:49pm
alexa84
wrote:
... Maybe its his size.
My ex was about 8-9 inches so that could
have been the problem.
Lol
mine's only half
that size! 
