I am 32 years old and had a complete hysterectomy when I was 20 years old and now after 18 years of marriage my husband said he cannot live like this any longer. I have been in constant pain for years and with complete dryness. I have tried everything from creams to lubricants. So sex is totally out of the question. I was on the other hand one of the lucky ones as I had my daughter when I was 16 and my son at 18 so at least I got to have kids. But, now i'm afraid that my husband is going to leave. I was not able to take hormone replacements as I was allergic to everything they tried pills, patches etc. Now I just need help how can I make the pain and dryness go away so that I can save my marriage.