Lol. Its ok allie.Everyone needs to relax from time to time. Just make the most of it.


I know how you feel about seeing your ex. Every time I see neil now its just horrible- on the plus side the new guy is taking me out to the cinema tonight :d

i hope your headache gets better- I find those kool and soothe strips work great for me- the migraine ones for adults

Thanks becks, I dont have any of those cool n sooth strips. I might get some. Your going out with him again already! Lol have fun

woot woot loverssss !! Nahh lol just joking! Have fun :d haha im in such a "mood" tonight!

Again with the pain killers????

hahaha I wish!! Lol im jk, no just regular paracetamol tylenol? Which does nothing....Codeine is better but I know not when pregnant so I havent taken those. Still got this headache, im sure its cos im stressing. Got to leave in 30 mins ugh... I dont even know why it seems like such a big deal, just cant help it, I dunno how hes going to be like about it all or what he'll say. Like I dont know what I want to do for sure but I dont want him tp pressure me into what he wants ya know? Hes that type of guy.


Someone come with me....
Lol

I'll go with you and if he gives you lip i'll bust him one.

Lol! Aw thanks gen
ok im off.

Good luck allie. Don't stress too much it's not good for you or the lil one. :d

So how did it go allie?

Like crap to be honest. He kept saying we should get married which I expected cos he went on about it last time. But he actually cried! I dont know if that was to try make me feel sorry for him and say yes or if he was genuinly upset cos I said its not what I want. How can u be with someone u dont trust anymore?! He knows I dont trust him, but he thinks im making a big deal out of nothing. If we dont get married he said he'll be 'forced' to find someone else to be with, and that he wont have time to see our baby or help much cos he'll be too busy with his 'real family'. I was pissed but didnt show it. All I really said was what do u think about adoption? He said no one gets to have something that belongs to him. Ugh im seriously done with relationships. I never want a boyfriend again and im not getting married ever or living with a guy. All guys are good for is sex! Thats it im done, im fine single forever. Got my friends and my lil boy, im good! Men just screw u over and ruin your life. (unless they are just friends) ive got to see him again tomorrow at my first doctors apt...Joy

he sounds like a little 12 year old to be honest, what 40 something year old man says that type of stuff? Seriously..

thats what I was thinking.How can you say "well,i'll have a real family sometime,and when I do I just wont have time for this anymore".Thats a little messed up.I would tell him either adoption or he has to be in the childs life no matter whats going on in his own unless he wants to pay child suport!

Hes trying to make me feel like I should be with him for the babys sake otherwise he/she wont have a dad, to make me feel guilty. I dont think its my fault if he chooses not to be around just cos I wont marry him.

its not and don't let him guilt you into it hun! If he wants to be in that childs life,he will.Why does he want to marry you so bad?

I said whys it so important to get married, he said because then we'll always be together and we're having a baby....I think he just wants to be in a marriage and have a family, not be alone. I dont think its about how he feels towards me. Hes said he loves me, but I dont believe him cos of how he acts.

He is quite old anyway, I dont' think that you need someone that old to be married to. I thought about seeing a 48 year old but I just didnt' think that I would want to marry him and I just don't think that I should even date someone that I am not going to intend on marrying someday. You know????

Just let him get over himself....He will soon.

I wouldnt' let him go to your appointments.

me either.

Girl, you did just fine so far without him and you will continue to do just fine without him.

I'll come "borrow" your baby lol

If you get married just because you have a baby together it is a recipe for disaster! Its hard enough as it is to make a marriage work. If you are not compatible a child isn't going to solve anything.

It is better to be alone than with someone who isn't right for you.

Chin up girl, if I can do it then so can you

naw,screw him.Tell him he's either in or out.And if hes out,you want child support or the child will be adopted out!