Darling I am so sorry! Guys are scum. Thats the only way I know how to explain it to you. Thats the way my daddy explained it to me..Although I didnt understand it at that tie I am so sorry that he did this to you. But ya know what. You should confront him about it. Calmly. Ask him straight out why he did it. I really dont know what else to tell ya darling. Good luck with everything i'll say a prayer for you! Much love and lots of hugs!!!!!! Melissa

I dont really know what to tell you sweetheart!! Life is hard, you all know that I have been cheated on a lot by larry. And it has been 7 months since found out about everything, at once, and I still am not completely over it. Right now you need to decide what is best. Do you want to live with that feeling? Do you love him? Are you a better person with or without him? You need to decide what is right for you....Can you accept the cheating? Darling I understand that you needed to vent, and I am just trying to help. Hope that I did.

Hey get a piece of paper and weigh the pros and cons!!

*stacie*

I'm so sorry hun! He's dirt, thats all he is.. Hopefully it wasnt during ur pregnancy that he cheated, then he would be plain problem. I say rest a lil bit, for the health of u and ur baby and confront him about it.. If u feel u can forgive him then u should stay wit him but if u cant.. Then u should leave.. Im sorry I cant be of more help :s but I hope all is good and good luck!

Shauna

Once a cheater always a cheater, I am so sorry to both you and stacie, but guys like that don't deserve you or your child! And you called her a friend? Sweetie get rid of her too, you don't need people like that in your life, you are too sweet, too kind and too deserving of something better, then to settle for low class people like them!

I agree with anorexicbeauty once a cheater alwasy a cheater. My oldest sister has been with the father of her 2 children for 11 years, 12 un july and I cant tell you how many times he has cheated on her. There has been some many im sorries from him and so many tears from my sister. They stay together for the sake of their children. But if u ask me he does nothing for those kids and they are better off without him. I am not encouraging you to make any decisions but think long and hard about this. My sister is so sad and I see it everyday. He is the only man she has ever been with and she has such a beautiful heart. God I feel like crying right now lol . It's just hard to see someone you love hurt so much. Noone can convince her either. I think she is afraid noone will want her since like I said he has been the only one. But she is a lil hottie lol . I will go by once a cheater alwasy a cheater 4ever. You have no idea how much a man can drag u down if u let him. Now u wont ever trust him. U will always be suspicious, you will worry constantly ans what kind of life is that?! You dont need this trust me and you will realize it later I promise. Good luck and kit. ~ erica.

Wow!! Thanks guys, hope to hear from you all again soon... Hope that everything works out ladies!!

I'm so sorry to hear that! My first babys' daddy did the same thing to me! Time heals all wounds-i hope you can make a good decision, but i'm not going to tell you which way to go because I dont see how the rest of your relationship is. Good luck with everything!

oh yeah, I was on the boars at like 2:30 in the morning too bad I missed ya!

Yes, I know exactly what your dealing with. My bf has cheated on me before I got pregnant and had our daughter. Luckily he didn't sleep with other girl, but he did do other stuff. Either way its unnacceptable!!! You are better than that and deserve better than that! Just hang in there hun and if you need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to talk to...Im here!

~sara~ cheer up sweetie we are here for you

Oh sweetie!!! I'm so sorry. I have been cheated on too. The guy I was dating for a year and 8 months cheated on me. It hurts alot even today it hurts and we broke up almost 2 years ago. My dad cheated on my mom the whole time their were married (8 years) she finally lefted when she was 6 months preggie with me. My dad and my mom lived in asutrila and she lefted everything. All she had were some pics and clothes.

I think you should just talk to him but truthfully leave him. Once a cheater always a cheater. It might be hard but you have to think of yourself and they baby.Best of luck!

Alison xoxo

Ansley, my babys father cheated on me with his other babys mama, yea I know (baby mama drama!) anyways...Leave him girl! I left chris and its the best thing I have ever done for myself and my baby..Its a great step in the right direction!!!
Jordan and jadyn

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Thats fine, but you shouldnt take him back. I think guys should be lucky to have one chance. One they blow it, they blow it. Take one second to think, what if he thinks it was you that cheated? Would he stay or go? Once a dog always a dog, I know your hurting right now beacuse of it, but it will be easier sooner or later. Im in yahoo of ya need me!

Oh sweetie. I am still kinda going through this. My guy.... Well I am pretty sure he slept with one of my friends. I know it's a horrible feeling and when I see her it's even worse that she would do that to me! Oh gosh, I can't make you feel better, just hang in there ok.
Love,
chanda

We are all feeling for ya sweetie hes an ass to do this to the mother of his child. Wot a low life. Im like u insurance girl I dont know wot I would do if mick ever cheated on me altho I did say that I would stalk him and then take him for every penny he is worth.

But men must think some of us women are dumb I once had a bf who cheated on me and then when I found out and I asked him about it he said he let her sleep in his bed but nothing happened do I have gullible fool written on my head.

Its like the old sayings never know wot u got till its gone and maybe that might prove true in this case. But I also agree with the other posts once a cheater always a cheater I say.

Good luck with everything sweetie we are all thinking of ya.

From someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own

Well, give it a try. I know how hard it is to let go of someone you love. My "sort of" boyfriend is always going between me and his baby's mama. Oh yea, more baby mama drama. But I love him and I know he cares about me, he just loves his kid. It's very confusing and scary and hurtful! Keep your chin up. You are too good to let him get ya down!
Love,
chanda

Hey sweetie. Guys are rats. Guys are fleas on rats...Guys are ameobas on fleas on rats(gota love grease). If things are meant to b they will be. If you love something let it sore, and if it comes back you know its meant to be. If he doesnt show remorse and puts it on u, dont even give a second chance a thought...Cuz this was def. Not your fault! Dont tell him u love him for awhile..Trust me.. Guys get so used to hearin those words that it becomes more of a habit, and if u break that habit, he'll know what he did was wrong. Time will tell sweetie..Love u lots!! *kisses* I feel ya where ur comin from...If ya need n e thing..Im here

love mol

Thanks girls yall are really great....

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