No one is too ugly. There are plent of un shallow women out there. You must believe in yourself. Portray self confidence. Find something about yourself that you like and embrace it. Flaunt it... You new found confidence will be a magnet.

Don't worry if you are not traditionally attactive, be open and honest with yourself and love yourself. Only then will the love for you be brought into your life.

*hugs*
good luck

You have to become interesting in your own right. Read books / magazines, watch movies, have a hobbie (i don't know - start collecting star treck or dvd's or smurfs), if you have stuff that keeps you busy and you have interests, then you will have more to talk about to others. I used to be just like you (except not ugly), and I couldn't even make a conversation, but as you read newsy websites, e.G. Bbc, and catch up on the news, read the paper, have conversations with other guys etc,... Then you can have a conversation with women, they will then like you. Plus if you have acne, you should go to the doctor and get anti-bacterial medication which will make the acne go away, go to the hair-dressers, ask them to give you a hot hair-cut, and ask them to streak it. Have the confidence to change your hair-style. A lot of women like short hair, not long girly hair. (some like long hair (like in starksky and hutch - the comdey movie). When you know a lot, you have more confidence, coz you can talk about a lot of things, when you have confidence, women will like you more. I've only had 1 girl-friend in my life from when I was 28 to 30yrs. It was on-again / off-again. But I have had a fair number of casual flings. But I know how you feel, wanting something that seems so un-obtainable.

buddie we should strart a club, I am a bit younger then you. Compared to my brother and sister I am ugly. Well not that ugly but I have more of a european complection then my siblings. Like I am not brd pitt but I am fairly good looking. But I fell like I am ugly. No girls come and talk to me, or even acknowledge me at all. It makes me want to like die or something. Like get out of this country, go somewhere where no one knows me and try to get a fresh start. There are other things that contrubute to me wanting to die or get out of this country( I live in canada). I don't know what do, but just so you know your not alone out there and if you ever want to talk about it and exchange stories and feeling/emotions please private message me and we can talk.

i am 28 and I never had gf yet...Its not easy

I've been told I'm a good looking guy, I work out religiously with weights, running, calisthenics etc. I've even been told I'm extremely polite and nice around everyone! But you know what my problem is? Shyness. Oh sure I'll join the military, do martial arts, do crazy workouts and other stuff. But when it comes to asking out a girl I "like" (even though I don't think I'm capable of being attracted to anyone anymore, after so many years of ignoring my emotions...trust me....it's gotten bad ) I freeze up and turn away. It's the only thing in the world that makes me nervous (well that and exams).

I've never had a serious relationship either - but the more you dwell on it the worse it gets! The most beautiful girl i ever knew is going out with some ugly short dude! Makes sense - no! But hes a nice guy! Seriously a nice guy! Thats what counts!

I've only had one relationship...and I sorta fell into that one, unknowingly. Long story.
It really sucks to have such trouble getting girls.
I haven't been kissed since I was 14. I'm 19.

I am 28 and have been and at this point probably will always be single

sigh... i have a great career, great family (mum, dad, sis, granny, aunties, uncles that love me), great friends, 2 apartments, 1 house, travel around the world, and not ugly... but nv been in a relationship. guys that i fell in love with jus didn't fall back. i should be the one asking God, "what's wrong with me??!?!"

Hey people, i was in your position a few years ago..............really nice guy etc but no one seemed interested and since then something happened! I would say i am better than average looking and nothing seemed to happen. Since then i have been out with few girls and i'm single at the moment but not really bothered because i see attractive girls all the time but now i know that the right one will come a long eventually! xxx

My bf he didn't have a gf will he about 23. Thats when I kinda forced my way into his life:)
I dated a lot of weird people.....well only 3. It takes time...I am sorry if this is now what you want to hear. If you need anyone to talk to, I am here^,^ and I am sure a lot of people are here too!!!! Never give up...really.
My grandma always said "when you look for something, you can't find it. When you don't look, it is there"

*huggles to you*

Your problem is clear. You fall in love with the wrong men. Remember this you don't marry who you love, you marry he who is in love with you.

This phrase would work with lost items but not with love. I found my husband online because I was looking. I looked and I found. If I didn't looked I would still be alone.

i belive no matter what , theres someone out there for everyone
give it time , shell come along

goodluck guys

I found my bf on online. >< weird. Well it works for some things.....stuff does take time.

i have a friend who;s 18 and never had a boyfriend, maybe you two coulf get together? i know it upsets her a lot.

No such thing, Ugly is a total subjective thing, what one person finds unattractive another will love.

You need some self confidence, try to take up running, or going to the gym a few times a week, its amazing how exercise helps you get some self worth and confidence.

Girls will like you, you just need to get yourself out there and let them see what there is to like, you need to be proactive, sitting feeling sorry for yourself is not only unattractive and damaging to yourself, but it will not allow your true personality to shine through.

Eddy

So you say get out there.. ok, I can do that. (thinks to self) wait, wheres "out there"?

I'm 18, I work from 7am -3:30pm mon - fri, then go to night school at 6:30pm to 9:30pm mon wed. I work construction (building windows) so im with a lot of middle aged men and lesbians where I work, so I can't meet people there. At my school everyones 25 so I have nobody there to talk to.

Basically the question is.
What kind of weekend hobbies are there that would present a good evironment for meeting girls?
I don't need a miracle potion, I just need a place to start, any suggestions?

To the poster.

Self pity has never won any dates. I'm 18, and im in the same boat pretty much, I'm lonely yadda yadda yadda, I have terrible acne, its discusting. You know what, sh*t happens bro. You dont have to be the best lookin dude in the world to be considerd "attractive". If you were well groomed ( you know, bought some nice cloths, had a slick haircut and all that good stuff) you may have a little more self confidence, because your taking pride in you, and you would be proud of that. With that newly aquired confidence you would already be lookin better for the ladies and maybe JUST MAYBE you would have the guts to talk to one of them.
A nice look, and not presenting a vibe of self pity... these are all good things you know?

Now I dont mean to be a jerk, I really dont. But you know us shy unattractive guys gotta do something about this. There are plenty of girls out there, you just gotta give it a little effort.

Work on it bro! you got it! im sure you got some good qualities that some one will like out there, now clean up, and go find her!