Hi everyone! I need an expert opinion.


A month ago, I had two instances of unprotected sex with the same girl. Each instance lasted for less than 30 minutes and neither of us climaxed.


The only other sexual activity she had was with her boyfriend of a year and 9 months (who recently joined bootcamp), one guy she cheated on him with (protection was used), and then our two times. Somehow she found time to have an abortion in there, but then again, that might just be her telling stories for shock value. I truly don't know about that. Either way, that supposedly took place before her year and a half relationship. If her boyfriend contracted hiv from her, certainly they would have discovered that in tests before he was admitted into bootcamp, right?


A month has passed since we had sex and I realized that the threat of hiv is real and so last week I got some bloodwork done. I came back negative across the entire std-spectrum (i have had absolutely no symptoms for this entire month. My doctor also said that there was absolutely no trace of hiv in the sample) but I know that such early hiv tests arent that accurate.


Do you guys think that in the next three months (next test is scheduled for february) hiv is suddenly going to spring up? My partner isnt a prostitute, I know this for a fact. Things between us went too fast for our own good and the two of us are experiencing some heavy regrets. I know hiv typically isnt a "lone-wolf" type of disease, but I know it's not unthinkable. Is it really probable for me to suddenly develop hiv in the next 3 months?


Id love all of your feedback, both good and bad.