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Q: Why Do So Many Girls Love Guys Who Treat Them Bad
asked by: Rach7676 on November 6th, 2006
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I have just joined this forum, and have read a few posts and am feeling a little relieved to know I am not the only person in this situation.

My boyfriend is not treating me very well, he shows no respect for me, says we are broken up and then when convenient will want to spend time with me. I love him so much (will I think I do) and so I always give into what he says.

I know he does not care about me, our relationship has no future, but I dont want to go thru the depression of losing him.

Why do so many girl love guys who treat them bad?
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Melissa_20
replied on November 29th, 2006
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Re: Why Do So Many Girls Love Guys Who Treat Them Bad
rach7676 wrote:
i have just joined this forum, and have read a few posts and am feeling a little relieved to know I am not the only person in this situation.


My boyfriend is not treating me very well, he shows no respect for me, says we are broken up and then when convenient will want to spend time with me. I love him so much (will I think I do) and so I always give into what he says.


I know he does not care about me, our relationship has no future, but I dont want to go thru the depression of losing him.

Why do so many girl love guys who treat them bad?
hun I was there. . .

You don't want to be alone.You want someoe to love and someone to love you back and at the moment he;s the closest thing you have to it.You need to get out and get away.You deserve much better than that.My boyfriend acted like yours and he ended up hitting me.I knew our relationship was going no where and it was going to end sometime,but I didn't want to be depressed.All your doing is brushing it off when you really need to deal with it.When I broke up with my man I was severly depressed for a while but realized,hey,i feel better. . .I now met a new guy who is a total gentlman and i'm much happier without my ex! If you want to talk you can pm me!
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Spirit
replied on November 29th, 2006
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Listen to melissa.........................She has alot of wisdom for a young lass.......................If he doesn't treat you well or respect you.................It'll only get worse........................Get rid of the dead weight...................................Y ears of experience talkin here..................Nobody deserves to be disrespected.....................It may not seem like it now but, one day you'll wake up and say, "now, why didn't I ditch him a long time ago??"
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Melissa_20
replied on November 30th, 2006
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spirit wrote:
one day you'll wake up and say, "now, why didn't I ditch him a long time ago??"


exactly! I know because thats how I feel now! There is so uch better out there. . .Thank you spirit! Wink

so spirit,you've been through this right? If so please pm me,i have a couple of questions to ask you deary!!!
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Spirit
replied on December 9th, 2006
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Through it, but not through it ...................If ya know what I mean?!.....................One hit......................I was gone.....................Its the mental abuse.................The more subtle abuse...................Where your thinkin, is it me?/whatd I do?.................That took longer to realize that perhaps this dude isnt the right choice.......................Old enough now to say "ya know what?....................Keep the b.S................I'd rather be alone and happy than with someone who'll treat me worse than the stuff they step in??..........................Ya wanna play games?!...................Keep moving!! Smile

if you act like you deserve the best, then you will get it................I did!!...................................An d now that ive had a "taste" of a quality man...........................I .Will not go back to the duds Smile
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