Broken Relationship, Abortion Depression

I can't say much or offer too many kind words because .I don't agree with abortion at all. I'm 30 wks pregnant with a little girl and theres .N.O.O.N.E who could've talked me into an abortion. (also .I'm only 17 years old & very "off and on" with my 24 year old boyfriend). Anyway, pretty much all .I can say is don't let anyone talk you into anything you don't want to do or aren't comfortable with. I'm sorry for your losses, but you could've handled the situation differently. If you aren't ready for children, please get on some form of birth control.

I don't think it anyone's business what you decided on in terms of your pregnancy...And i'm sure me being a guy people are thinking what the hell do I know and they'd be right....But the same goes for them. You made a choice that you thought was best for you...Whether it was for him or for yourself... You could have had the twins and this guy still would have left... And while there are a lot of single parents out there or people in unstable relationships it's not necessarily going to best for their children.

Bottom line is what's done is done. You learned who this guy was and hopefully you realize what kind of relationship you want now ...For yourself and for your kids. Don't let anyone make you feel that what you decided was wrong or defines who you are as a mother. A child needs a stable life and from what I read you knew you couldn't give that to them at the time.

Please ask for support following abortion in the abortion forum - thanks