Im a virgin.. I used to be able to get it up all the time. I never had any worries when it came to gettin hard. And now I have a girlfried. I think she is beautiful. When we started going out.. I had no problem. I got sick for a week and I lost my erection during masterbation. Thats when the worrying started. And then we started talking about having sex and lately and when we tried it, I got it halfway erect but not hard enough... She tried getting me hard and I ended up cumming before it was fully erect. Then it went flacid. That was something that hasent happend before. Now its been difficult getting it up. Even sometimes during masterbation. We both really want to have sex and I dotn know what to do. I have a lowered self esteem now, it has lowered by alot. And now the masterbating situation is better but when I want to have sex with her its worse. She told me not to be nervous with her because she wants me to be completely comfterble with her. She said that today and I feel alot better. But are there any suggestions that you can give me?