Sarah knows how I feel, but .I'm going to put it out there for everyone else to see too. I'm not posting this to cause drama, it's just how I feel.

Sarah knows what she did was wrong. She regrets it and doesn't plan on doing it again. That's all there really is to say on that. All parents screw up at some point or another, and it's not our job to point our fingers and talk trash when that person already knows they've done wrong.

I don't agree with what happened, but I don't respect her any less for it. If she didn't regret it, I probably would have lost respect. I won't be a part of this witch hunt.

I hope .Sarah comes back at least once and sees that someone was willing to stand by her. I hope she doesn't leave over this.

That's all. Thanks for reading.

I still love you sarah, for real girl!


Send me a message so you can get my aim or yahoo or something.

I'll just add my 2 cents...

I think it was bad that sarah did that but like she said oni isn't gonna die. You are exposed to a lot just being out in the world, the air and everything in it. People smoke meth, there are smoke from cars, trucks whatever the heck else is out there that everyone is exposed to, so even if its not intentional you are still exposing your child to sh*t. I don't respect sarah any less, shes still sarah to me.

And I do think terra needs to shut her mouth at certain times, she seems to yap yap yap about everyones business, but that's mel's fault too for telling her sh*t.

You guys could of waited until she went to sleep, turn on the baby monitor and stepped outside. You were obviously close enough for oni to be trying to grab the joint (as I heard) and she didnt have to be .T.H.A.T. Close.

Finished.

I think I missed something here.. But I think you should leave because of a cat fight.. These happen all the time no matter where you go... You just gotta stang your ground

Yap yap yap

i do yap, I like to gossip, sorry, don't most girls? I dont do it on everyone but I thought that was pretty messed up and wanted to talk to someone about it, I didnt expect it to get drawn out like this, but whatever, it's the internet, right? Don't tell me that a lot of the people here don't sit on msn or yahoo or aim and talk sh*t about each other, because yeah a lot of you do, somehow my conversations end up getting put out there (no offense tanya because I don't really care at this point) but I know people here talk crap on each other and it's not just me, so don't make me look like the bad guy, or the only girl on this forum who gossips because I sure as hell know i'm not the only one.

I'm not like this always, I don't spread sh*t around all the time, i'm not like this in person, but I guess I don't need to explain myself either, do i?

I didn't play mel, but all of this can be said in a pm, i'm not going to play it out over the threads, this is dumb.

yeah it is dumb and it could of been avoided if you would of kept quiet, but instead you feel the need to tell like 5 different people omg sarah and mel did this and that. If you don't care so much why bother on these forums? Your obviously here for friends or you wouldn't come on.

I'd like to see how many friends you actually have after this, and go ahead and say "i dun currr" but we all know you do or else why would you be here?

I thought you would have learned from the tanya situation we had but I guess your too hardheaded.

"i'm not like this in person" so your being a fake ho on here then? I dont understand how you can be different in real life unless your being fake on here.

And usually, people dont gossip about their so called .F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

You say i'm dumb for jumping in on other peoples situations so why are you jumping in, dalicia? This has nothing to do with you.

No, i'm not being fake on here, but the friends I do have in "real life" aren't the type of people to sit around and smoke pot infront of a 5 or 6 month old baby, that's pathetic.

And i'm here for the people that I do like, I love mel, but yeah I did tell people about it. Big deal, like tanya said, if it wasn't "wrong" then why are they trying to keep it a secret? Obviously it's something they knew they shouldn't have done. & am here for the friends, and because I learn a lot from these boards, there's nothing wrong with that, think what you will.

i wasnt going to say anything about this. I didnt even post in the other thread about this. I only mentioned the research that I read.

The fact that you are trying to justify such actions with "oh the baby isnt going to die" makes me want to yack. You also tried to justify it in the other post as well. And I have to say that I agree with allie.
No amount of exposure is safe for the baby, and the articles explained why.
Maybe try to be mature about this, and dont try to justify smoking around your own child. It is jeoporadizing to their health, period.
My son went to his grandmas for one day where they smoke outside, the next day he was screaming as if he was being murdered and I brought him to the er. Turns out he had an ear infection. I mentioned to the doc where he had been and she sad that was really not a good idea.

Whatever though, its your childs respiratory system, not mine.

i am jumping in because I like sarah and don't think any less of her for doing that. Especially since it was just 1 time, oni isn't going to die, and i'm sure she's exposed to things a lot worse in the outside world that we can't even control. You know how many people make meth in this town? You know how much that sh*t is in the air? Can I help that? No. Can anyone else? No. If anything it builds their amune system to be stronger.

It obviously wasn't much of a secret if mel was telling you..

lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

I think im going to make some meth here, to strenghten my sons immune system.

okay, brayden didn't get sick until he was 6 months old and we both came down with a cold. He has never had an ear infection and my husband smokes outside. He has only been sick 2 times and he is 8 months old. You can't control when your baby gets sick and you have no idea what he even got sick of so until you do find out what is the actual cause of it, I dont wanna hear "omg he got sick cause of smoke" I don't give a sh*t, babies get sick and they get over it. It happens to everybody and just like ive said like 4 doing it times, look at what's in the .A.I.R. Your baby breathes in that every single day.

doing it hell, I have a friend that smokes ciggs and weed in front of her kid and she's 9 months and hasn't even been sick!

Go find a girl who hits her 5 month old in the face everyday, b*tch about that and you'll see how much sarah smoking in front of oni once is really gonna hurt.

B*tching about it isn't going to solve anything, and I honestly doubt sarah gives a f*ck what any of you think anyways. Weed isn't that bad, it's better than her smoking meth around oni, or doing x in front of her. Weed is .L.E.G.A.L. In the .U.K. And some states and is even prescribed to people here and no telling where else. If it was that harmful and caused so much sh*t people here wouldn't be allowed to smoke it.

There's weed in the air, meth in the air, cigg smoke in the air, gas fumes in the air, smoke from cars and big trucks in the air, you expose your child to sh*t too!!!

being exposed to things does build their immune system, ask any doctor.

lol I guess not.


Seriously, you know you run your mouth, too, dalicia. Don't make me out to be the only bad guy, a lot of people here do it, it's not just me. I guess if you or anyone else doesn't want to tell me things ever again, then fine, your choice. I've kept lots of secrets for mel, and this is the only thing that i've ever said to anyone else, ever because it was messed up, everything else is personal and i'd never talk about it with other people.


I guess lots of people on here won't like me over this, bummer.

keep justifying. I hope you makes you feel better.

"if it was that harmful and caused so much caca people here woulndt be allowed to smoke it"

der, thats why its illegal. It is prescribed rarely for severely ill patients.

"weed isnt that bad, its better thank her smoking meth or x"

again with the justifying. Pathetic. What if I said, "oh its okay if someones dad fondles their sons penis, it isnt that bad, its not like he penetrated him"

grow up.

I dont give a medical question what you do or if you damage your childs health. My point is, its medical fact that it can be harmful. Exposure the smoke increases a babies chance of sids and rsv, which by the way is deadly.

How irresponsible

jesus christ you are an fool! If a baby is exposed to second hand smoke, it .D.A.M.A.G.E.S. Their immune system. It increases the chance of sids, increases risk of .R.S.V, damages, the heart, lungs, causes ear infections, etc etc etc. Did you read the danm articles I posted??

Just want to say that weed is not legal in the .U.K.




cannabis is illegal; it's a class .C drug.



If you are caught with cannabis:
if you are under 18 you will be arrested. If you are over 18 you might be arrested, or given a warning. The drug will be confiscated.



The maximum penalty is a two year prison sentence. For less serious cases you are likely to get a warning or a reprimand. This goes on your record and if you get caught again you could end up in court.



You can be arrested even if you are only carrying a very small amount.



Blatant smoking in public, or repeat offending, will also result in an arrest.



Drug driving is as illegal as drink driving. You could go to prison, get a heavy fine or be disqualified.



People who grow cannabis in their homes will be arrested and prosecuted and might be charged with 'intent to supply' which has the same penalties as dealing.



Allowing people to take cannabis in your house or any other premises is illegal. If the police catch someone smoking cannabis in a club they can prosecute the landlord, club owner or person holding the party.



A drug conviction could mess up your chances of getting your ideal job.



If you are caught dealing cannabis:
the police will consider this a much more serious offence than possession. It's a maximum penalty of 14 years in prison.



Sorting out your mates with cannabis is still seen as dealing

I couldnt care less if sarah stays or leaves, its upto her, I just feel so sorry for kayoni having to live with a weed & cig smoker. Same with brayden.


Everyone gossips at times, terra did nothing wrong imo. If people dont want their personal business being known on this site, they should keep their mouths shut, thats common sense. I have no idea what happened between tanya and terra.


Natalia... Nothing we say is going to change dalicia's actions. Shes 100% deluded on the weed subject and is just going to continue making ridiculous excuses to try and justify it to make herself feel its ok. I agree with all your points tho!


No one aggrees with you dalicia you health question! You hit the nail on the head saying you dont care about medical research. Nah because you're too selfish, u gotta keep your habit. what are u on about saying its legal to smoke it over here?! Um no it aint! U fool

the most pathetic excuse u made was saying kids are exposed to much worse pollution from trucks everyday that we cant control etc. Um yeh! So you should want to protect them from things in the ways you *can* control! Like doing drugs, that is something u can control. You can quit and its 1 less thing out there harming him duh! Saying there's worse things than smoking pot around a baby is another ridiculous dumb excuse.

Brayden and kayoni deserve better parents, you dont love your kids as much as you should to keep risking their health like this! ! ! Its sick, deluded, total selfishness!

Yeh green! Dalicia is so ignorant about this stuff yet she keeps preaching about it....fool.

First I didn't think i'd have to tell you guys "if a post is locked it's locked for a reason".

And now so is this.
Reason: you can't debate nicely.

personal experience parents who drink are violent towards kids, parents who smoke dope chill out.
Either way it's better than giving your kid black coffee with whiskey in it's bottle at 18 months.
Campaign against the real perps - the parents who beat their kids, or who go on holiday leaving a baby home alone