I'm not real sure my husband likes it to. I found it can be very intimate. He must be very slow, lubbed. You may discover you feel like yoou need to have a bm soon. If thats the case it may be uncomfortable until things are moved around. Many women aren't loose its just a weird fetish many men have. My husband which is 11 years older had never done it or thought about it untill we did it. Hes 37 i'm 26. My prob the past few years has been him messing with his own backside. I know they have a g spot there or what not... But we expecting #4 now and only will do it alone. It makes me mad ands I say mean things because it upsets me so much. I don't care for it much and the various things he uses. Never seems to be his stuff and doesn't clean the item up after himself. is this normal?

Sad nevada girl

My boyfriend wants to have anal sex too but I haven't let him yet! He's always sticking his fingers in my butt when we're having sex, so one night I got mad and did the same thing back to him! Boy was he surprised!

I thinks its a man thing! They seem to love it for some reason! First time I did it it was painful now its okay... I dont like it much and wouldnt do it out of choice I only do it if the man really wants it.... Take a tip tho... It can be very messy and smelly.. Quite gross really..... If you know your man is going to want it that way .... Make sure you have a good poo first so that you anus is empty! Althogh it dosnt seem to bother the man ... The stink is really off putting!

I've never had any desire for anal. Yes i'm a guy.

Anal and huge breasts are just a turn off to me.

I must be wierd.

People are of course free to do whatever they agree to.

But i've never understood why a guy would force his most sensitive parts into an arsehole, with all the health risks that implies, when just a couple of centimetres away there is a beautiful fresh moist warm enticing vagina just waiting to be pleased into a shared orgasm.

Strange, the way folks are.


Eff

i had anal sex wen i was wit my man for like 4 months...bu i didnt really think it hust dat may b to da fact dat we wer out dat night nd got abit too drunk..bu he always wanted to do it den after dat bu i didnt really mind bcoz i started to like it and we ended up doin it dat way dan normal...bu the stink does but u off a little bit nd make sure ur comfortable in ur relationship because u cn get abit embarresed...nd sumtims it cn get very very messy...!

Anal sex is great because its degrading to women, men like being in control. There is also no pressure to make a girl climax if your giving anal. Plus if your condom breaks, theres a far less change of your getting prego and wanting to get married.