Just before starting, I hope this is the
right forum
hey guys/gals, I had protected intercourse
with my girl friend on tuesday (the one
that just passed), I didn't ejaculate
inside of her and like I said earlier, it
was protected. After intercourse, maybe
1 to 2 minutes after, I touched her
vagina, and I highly doubt it, but it's
something to take into consideration, but
there might have been semen on my fingers,
once again, I highly doubt it and if there
was any it was at a microscopic level.
So wensday she had headaches (but she
regularly has migraines), she's been
exhausted all week (but she's going to bed
past 1 waking up at 6 for school studies),
friday she felt overall "bad", she didn't
describe it as woozy, she just said she
felt crappy, and finally, on friday night
she urinated and she told me that it
burned and that there was a little bit of
blood. Now I told her it was because
she just finished her mid terms and she
thinks she did bad, which would explain
the stress, but truth be told, i'm
excessively worried now because these are
symptoms of pregnancy, and we both come
from tradional/conservative families...An
aboption is death for both of us.
Thanks in advance.
Oh I almost forgot to add, her period in
october was around the 10th, and she's
expecting it anyday now. Oh and I forgot
the add one more thing (sorry), thursday
night (between thursday and friday), she
got up to go pee (she had went before
going to bed, during the night, and once
she woke up).
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megums1211
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:54am
Take a test if she misses her period.
That's the only way to know. Blood in
her urine is not a sign of pregnancy.
And although tiredness is a symptom, it
wouldn't happen so soon. Symptoms
usually don't occur until you miss your
period. And when they say that frequent
urination in a symptom, they mean like
really frequent. I am 36 weeks pregnant
and I pee like every 15-30 minutes or so.
Peeing once in the night is not frequent.
Once again, the day after intercourse is
not soon eneough to be feeling any
symptoms. The way she is feeling is not
because she is pregnant. Here is a
little bit of science for you: in order to
get pregnant, sperm has to enter her
vagina and swim all the way up into her
tubes, this is where the sperm meet the
egg (a woman ovulates about 14 days into
her cycle in a 28 day cycle) once the egg
and sperm meet, it takes about 7 days (but
as many as 10 or so) to implant into the
lining of her uterus. She is not
"pregnant" until this happens, as her body
does not release the hcg horomone (the
horomone that pregnancy tests pick) until
the fertilized egg imbeds itself into the
uterine wall. This is why the day after
intercourse is too soon for her to be
feeling symptoms, as the horomone is what
causes the symptoms. I highly doubt she
is pregnant, especially since you used
protection. Kudos on that
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:57am
Thank you, i'm just really scared that's
all (hey, not that there's anything wrong
with having kids, I want them, just right
now is a little bit too soon).
Once again thank you.
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megums1211
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:58am
No problem.
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steve1986
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:58am
Sorry bout that, I posted as a guest
instead of user, by the way, best of luck
with your child.
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megums1211
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:58am
Babies are a blessing but, use protection
until you're ready for the responsibility.
How old are you ?
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steve1986
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Posted: 11-04-06 10:02am
I just turned 18 (dont listen to the year
in my username, has nothing to do with my
age lol)...And I know some might think 18
is young to have intercourse, but it was
our first time and we've been friends for
forever, "seeing" each other for the past
2 years, and dating for over a year, we
were ready (here's where I would put an
emoticon of a heart if there was one) :d
just a little question, when people or
websites or what ever discuss pregancy
symptoms, they always use the term after
conception, does this mean right after
intercourse or ...?
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megums1211
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Posted: 11-04-06 10:38am
When exactly does conception occur?
By lori ramsey
the question is often asked exactly when
conception occurs, especially if
intercourse and ovulation are on separate
days. There are many things that come
into play here leading up to conception.
I will explain each to give you a clearer
picture of this wonderful process. First,
the body begins to prepare for ovulation
on the first day of the menstrual cycle.
This is known as day one of your cycle.
It is during this time that the ovaries
start preparing a few follicles to be the
potential egg. After your bleeding period
is over, your body starts producing
estrogen, and the ovaries are being primed
for ovulation. It is during this time
that the cervical fluid becomes more
“fertile”. If the cervical fluid
becomes fertile up to five days prior to
ovulation and you have sexual intercourse,
the sperm can live inside your fallopian
tube during this time. For example, you
can have sexual intercourse on monday and
not ovulate until friday but still
conceive. The chances of conceiving a
girl are greater this way because female
sperm tend to live longer than male sperm.
Given the fact that sperm can live up to
five days inside a woman’s body, the egg
only lives 12 to 24 hours. Rarely, a
second egg will pop out 24 hours after the
first. So tentatively there is about a
week long window for conception to occur.
But things have to be in tip-top shape for
it to happen. In order for sperm to live
longer than about 48 hours, there has to
be good fertile-quality cervical fluid
present. In order for the egg to be
fertilized, there needs to be sperm
present, or intercourse needs to be done
within the first 12 hours of ovulation.
With these circumstances in mind, it’s
important to know when ovulation does
occur through fertility charting. I
believe that conception happens the minute
the sperm and egg combine. This happens
within 24 hours after ovulation occurs.
The body will not know it’s pregnant
until the fertilized egg implants into the
uterine wall, some 5 to 12 days after
ovulation. Before implantation, there is
nothing going on inside the body to detect
pregnancy. When the fertilized egg
implants, it starts sending signals to the
corpus luteum to continue producing
progesterone. It’s during this that
minute levels of hcg – the pregnancy
hormone - are released. During a healthy
pregnancy, the hcg levels will double
every other day. The earliest a pregnancy
test would show a positive would be
possibly on day 7 post ovulation, but
it’s rare to see a positive pregnancy
test that early. Even with the most
sensitive tests, you will more stand a
better chance of seeing a positive at
around 10 days post ovulation.
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Posted: 11-04-06 11:48am
Megums is exactly right, I just wanted to
add one thing, if she is saying it burns
or whatever when she goes pee she may have
a uti (but if it only happened that once
then probably not), as far as I know
burning during urination is not a symptom
of pregnancy
~alicia~
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megums1211
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Posted: 11-04-06 11:49am
That's a good point idony. I never
thought to mention it