Hi wanna! My nephew had this same problem, if you are referring to something called a vagus nerve? He was told the same thing as your husband when he was a young child. They suggested surgery, which his parents never bothered to get for him. He now is 33, has had 4 pregnancies resulting in two children. One pregnancy I am sorry to say was aborted because his girlfriend was very young (16) and the other, sadly was a miscarriage that is wife recently suffered. But he had no problem getting two women pregnant, so I guess you can't always believe what the doctors say! Just relax, don't stress about it, and it will happen. Chances are better that stress will cause you not to get pregnant, than the nerve problem, unless of course it is a very bad case. I say take your time, don't think about it, and have fun. Give yourself a time frame, and if it doesn't happen by then, check back with your doctor. Good luck!