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Q: Umm Help!

asked by: JennaSwirl on November 2nd, 2006

Anonymous

I've been trying to get pregnant for 4yrs now and during the time I haven't gotten pregnant and im very small I only way 98-110 pounds my weight goes up in down sumtimes could the reason be that im to small to get pregnant?. And I wanted to know why does the males sperm come back out the womans body after it goes in is this another way why I can't get pregnant?. I would love to get pregnant but I dont think I can could anything geperrdise me from haven a baby food,excersize, not eating every meal of the day anything? Also somethan else I had sex wit my ex and we didn't use a condom like 5 days after my period then again 8 days after that wit no condom then I had sex wit my current boyfriend the same day like 8hours apart and the condom busted if I was pregnant what percent chance could it be my ex and chance it could be my current.... Please help me please....

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Kia

replied on November 2nd, 2006

Moderator

Size doesn't have much to do with it unless you are unhealthily under or over weight.

For reasons as to why you are not getting pregnant you must see a doctor. If you have been trying for 12 months or more you should see a doctor anyway to rule out causes of infertility (both of you).

If you had sex with more than one person at any point around ovulation there would be a 50/50 chance either way of the parentage unless one man has some condition that makes him less fertile.

Again only a doctor conducting tests on both of them can give you an answer on that.

However, if you have changed partners, still sleep with your ex and don't have a stable relationship/income/home/etc I wouldn't recommend you even consider bringing a child into this world.

How old are you?

tinkinpink84

replied on November 2nd, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Weight definately has nothing to do with it I was only 110 when I got pregnant with my son, and I know of people that were 85lbs pre pregnancy, you seem to be er very young though and im hoping your not sleeping with multiple people just for the purpose of becoming pregnant to have a child of your own. It can take time to get pregnant some people no time at all while other it takes years. Be patient your not that old

Bridget

replied on November 2nd, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Re: Umm Help!

jennaswirl wrote:

and I wanted to know why does the males sperm come back out the womans body after it goes in is this another way why I can't get pregnant?

so many people ask this and I don't understand why. Your vagina is not a bottomless pit, it's not going to swallow the semen leaving it never to be seen again. Semen is like the protective coating for the sperm, once inside your body the sperm seperate from the semen and start making their way towards the goal. The semen has nowhere to go, it's going to come back out eventually. Some people who are trying to conceive like to prop their hips up so the semen stays in longer.

oh_mommy

replied on November 2nd, 2006

Supporter

Talk to a doctor.... And size dosnt matter I was only 87lbs when I gopt pregg

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