Recently, since starting to have sex again, i've been feeling pretty yucky.My husband and I were seperated for about 2 1/2 years and have since reconciled. Since he's been back, i've had spotting, which has now stopped. I have cramps when I lift somewhat heavy things, or when I do too much. I've had a fairly weak stomach whereas before I didn't. I'll feel fine one minute and the next it's like i've been hit by a truck and I just can't stay awake, and i've been emotional. I have one shot of the depo, and have done two home pregnancy tests, both of which have been negative. I'm waiting to make an appointment with my family doctor and want to be tested for an std, and maybe see about having a blood test done to check again for pregnancy. Any advice or suggestions as to what I should ask my doctor would be greatly appreciated. And yes i've had a pap in the last two months, right before I had my depo shot.