Is it me or is it him? I can't figure it out. I've been dating this guy for about three months now but actually we were having sex for about six (i guess you could say that before we started dating we were friends "with benefits"). Anyway, i'm one of those rare women who can get off practically every time and easily (hooray for me). But I cannot get my boyfriend off and I don't know what to do about it.
The whole six months we've had sex he's gotten off maybe six times. Don't get me wrong, I play a pretty active role in bed; I don't just lay there and take it and he is amazing. It really bothers me, but when I asked about when he masturbates, he says it's hard for him to get off doing that as well. He says he's always been that way and I find it annoying. He keeps telling me that I have to "find out" ways to get him off and, really, by now, i'm stumped.
I think his whole problem may be due to the fact that he smokes weed on an almost daily basis (can I mention drugs on this post board?) and has a poor diet, except when I cook for him or bring food to his house, but that's not very often. We have sex every time I stay over at his house and then again in the morning, but like I said, his not getting off is upsetting me. Any advice, tips or tricks? Thanks.