The past few days have been so stressful for me. I didn't want to talk to family members about me and my boyfriends problems because I don't want them to worry, especially me being pregnant and all.
Sometimes my boyfriend blows in my face (air) when I 'piss him off'. Whatever. It didn't really bug me that much until it kept happening and happening. And then on saturday we were talking about our baby shower registry. And I said that I realllyyyy wanted this rocking chair to feed in from babies r us. He was like " you dont need that one you can just get one from like sears or something" ... But I really liked this chair, and all he cared about was cost, when its supposed to be a gift that I would maybe get. He blew air in my face and then I pinched him cause I am starting to hate it!! Then he called me a health forum multiple times and said "get out of my apartment health forum I dont need you" and I just started to bawl my eyes out. I wanted to leave - but I would go to my parents and I didnt want them to think that we were having serious problems for me to leave. So I just went to bed and tried to not worry about it so I wasn't stressed. The next day I just cleaned around and waited for an apology from him. It never came. He was more pissed off about me pinching him. This morning it never came. And finally bugging him about it, he did.

Am I out of line here?

Then, today I made his favorite meal for him, cleaned up everything, and then just simply asked him to scrape his plate and wash it so its not hard to clean. I waited five minutes and then I asked him again. We had to leave very very shortly and he still had not done it. Then I told him to do it and he got so upset that he is sitting down and I have to stop controlling him. What the heck? I hadn't sat down all day long and I had the worst back ache in the world. I had it. There is no way that he could tell me that I am a controlling person when I was simply trying to clean up with his help since he hadn't lifted a finger to clean all weekend.
Then right after we were in the car and he was telling me that I am so hostile and im only hostile because I am pregnant. But I feel as though he is starting to not care about my feelings and I am starting to reaact and try to change that!
Is it true that I may be hostile because im pregnant??
I know im whiny for food at times and back rubs and for him to help me put my socks on.......... But I am *not* hostile and controlling. I feel as though he doesnt care about my feelings as much when he definetly should be. These past couple days have been super stressful on me, and thats the last thing I want for my baby. I dont know how to cope with my stress, and how to approach my boyfriend in a different way.
Sorry its such a long post, I really need some support. Thanks