Joined: 12 Oct 2006 Posts: 66 Location: Australia..
My Neice.. Posted: 10-30-06 22:02pm
Well im so stressed out but theres really
nothing I can do about it.
I was driving home from my local shopping
centre when I see a lady and her two
children, ages 2 and 7 months sitting on
the street, no shoes on the children or
her. Guess who it was? .M.Y.
.C.O.U.S.I.N. ! Oh my god! I stopped
the car and asked her what was going on,
and she just started blabbing out about
all this bullsh**t! Shes the worst mother
I swear, shes 18 and its always her
friends before her kids.
I took the two year old.. She calls me
aunty but shes really my second cousin or
whatever. And from now on she will be
living at my home. My cousin has asked me
to take her! That she cant help it but
she has no feelings towards her, I swear I
wanted to baseball bat her fuc*ing face.
Arghh so now I have tannah crying all the
time because hes teething and jasmine
going throug her terrible twos swearing
and such. She can be the sweetest little
girl with some love and care but its going
to take some time..
Givee me huggss, I need some, im in for a
longgg ridee
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HcoBrunette06
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
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Posted: 10-30-06 22:08pm
Aww, good luck!!! We're here if and when
you need to vent!!!
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channy-leigh
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2006 Posts: 66 Location: Australia..
Posted: 10-30-06 22:25pm
Aww thanks heaps! Lol I have to laugh at
some of the things she does but arghh I
just want her to be a good little girl.
Anyways im off to work, leaving the kids
with the boyfriend so I think we all
should be wishing him good luck hahaha aww
poor michael wont know what to do when
jasmine starts throwing a tantrum.
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3843 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 10-31-06 06:17am
Are you worried that your cousin might
just turn around in a few
weeks/months/years and say 'i want my
daughter back' after the little girl has
got used to you? Are you going to seek
legal custody or is this just a temporary
thing.
Maybe you should call .Social .Services on
her because her other child could be in
danger of neglect.
God, this kind of thing makes me so bloody
angry!!!
good for you though - that little girl is
very lucky to have you.
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channy-leigh
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2006 Posts: 66 Location: Australia..
Posted: 10-31-06 06:45am
Yeah makes me angry to, she just doesnt
give a medical answer! Yeah my mums
worried that jasmine will get into a
routine and her mums just going to muck it
up again, so my mums going to see her
tomorrow and is telling her to sign over
her payments and rights to me or social
services will be called and both children
will be taken away and given to total
strangers. I would lovee to have joshua
to but I have my own 7 month old to look
after and these two are going to take up
so much of my time already it just wouldnt
be fair. My mum is thinking about taking
him but she also works and all our lives
just cant stop and go on pause because my
cousins a stupid fat slob that cant look
after her kids. Anyway I dont think
joshua is much of a worry right now, she
loves them when they are young, but as
soon as they get to hard for her, she just
lets them stay here, there and everywhere
she can leave them so she can go out have
fun and spread her doing it legs.
Believe it or not, a month back she
thought she was pregnant again. Yep would
of been third child to third different
father and yeh he was .F.I.F.T.E.E.N..
Geeezz grrr
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6230 Location: London, England
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Posted: 10-31-06 07:52am
That makes me sick- I wish I could take in
the little baby! You should definately
sort out some proper arrangment. Its
going to be hard thouugh cause the little
girl will miss her mother.
Its makes me so sad that people can have
no feelings for their child. The poor
little darling.
You are a fantastic person for doing this!
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Cowgirl*love
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 27 Location: canada
Posted: 10-31-06 20:59pm
That is horrible! Atleast the one is safe
w/ you now...Are you gtting legal things
sorted out?
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wr17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Oct 2004 Posts: 287
Posted: 11-01-06 08:54am
Sounds like your health question cousin
needs some sense beat into her head! I
know she hasn't, so i'm gonna thank you
for her for taking in her daughter. That
little girl is gonna appreciate it so much
when she grows up and realizes what you've
done for her.
