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Q: My Neice..
asked by: channy-leigh on October 30th, 2006
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Well im so stressed out but theres really nothing I can do about it.

I was driving home from my local shopping centre when I see a lady and her two children, ages 2 and 7 months sitting on the street, no shoes on the children or her. Guess who it was? .M.Y. .C.O.U.S.I.N. ! Oh my god! I stopped the car and asked her what was going on, and she just started blabbing out about all this bullsh**t! Shes the worst mother I swear, shes 18 and its always her friends before her kids.

I took the two year old.. She calls me aunty but shes really my second cousin or whatever. And from now on she will be living at my home. My cousin has asked me to take her! That she cant help it but she has no feelings towards her, I swear I wanted to baseball bat her fuc*ing face.

Arghh so now I have tannah crying all the time because hes teething and jasmine going throug her terrible twos swearing and such. She can be the sweetest little girl with some love and care but its going to take some time..

Givee me huggss, I need some, im in for a longgg ridee Sad
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HcoBrunette06
replied on October 30th, 2006
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Aww, good luck!!! We're here if and when you need to vent!!!
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channy-leigh
replied on October 30th, 2006
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Aww thanks heaps! Lol I have to laugh at some of the things she does but arghh I just want her to be a good little girl.

Anyways im off to work, leaving the kids with the boyfriend so I think we all should be wishing him good luck hahaha aww poor michael wont know what to do when jasmine starts throwing a tantrum.
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Jules
replied on October 31st, 2006
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Are you worried that your cousin might just turn around in a few weeks/months/years and say 'i want my daughter back' after the little girl has got used to you? Are you going to seek legal custody or is this just a temporary thing.


Maybe you should call .Social .Services on her because her other child could be in danger of neglect.


God, this kind of thing makes me so bloody angry!!! Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad

good for you though - that little girl is very lucky to have you.
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channy-leigh
replied on October 31st, 2006
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Yeah makes me angry to, she just doesnt give a medical answer! Yeah my mums worried that jasmine will get into a routine and her mums just going to muck it up again, so my mums going to see her tomorrow and is telling her to sign over her payments and rights to me or social services will be called and both children will be taken away and given to total strangers. I would lovee to have joshua to but I have my own 7 month old to look after and these two are going to take up so much of my time already it just wouldnt be fair. My mum is thinking about taking him but she also works and all our lives just cant stop and go on pause because my cousins a stupid fat slob that cant look after her kids. Anyway I dont think joshua is much of a worry right now, she loves them when they are young, but as soon as they get to hard for her, she just lets them stay here, there and everywhere she can leave them so she can go out have fun and spread her doing it legs.

Believe it or not, a month back she thought she was pregnant again. Yep would of been third child to third different father and yeh he was .F.I.F.T.E.E.N.. Geeezz grrr Twisted Evil
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Becky
replied on October 31st, 2006
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That makes me sick- I wish I could take in the little baby! You should definately sort out some proper arrangment. Its going to be hard thouugh cause the little girl will miss her mother.

Its makes me so sad that people can have no feelings for their child. The poor little darling.

You are a fantastic person for doing this!
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Cowgirl*love
replied on October 31st, 2006
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That is horrible! Atleast the one is safe w/ you now...Are you gtting legal things sorted out?
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wr17
replied on November 1st, 2006
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Sounds like your health question cousin needs some sense beat into her head! I know she hasn't, so i'm gonna thank you for her for taking in her daughter. That little girl is gonna appreciate it so much when she grows up and realizes what you've done for her.
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