we have been doing great. I am now a small daycare.... I take care of my wifes best-friends daughter and raise my son. I have the best job in the world. They are both 1 and so I get to be there with ben for all of the great moments that many dads and tooooooo many moms these days don't get to see. I now know why so many of the older folks out there that don't like to see moms working don't like it. Having to daycare your child has to be the hardest thing you can do. This is the time that you get to be there and mold your little one into so much more than a daycare can do for them.
However I am having second thought about having a 2nd baby too quickly. I want to be able to give ben and now lauren all of the love and time that they need and having children too close doesn't seem like a great idea for me right now. It works great for many but I feel selfish and want to give it all to my little guy.