if you are in menopause ( you didnt say) that kinda doesnt help.id make sure it was well lubercated and ask a doctor maybe about a time time pill .also always pee pee as soon as sex is over.

i CANT REALLY ADVISE ON YOUR SITUATION ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO BUT ALL I DO WANT TO SAY IS THAT PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE THEM UNTREATED. PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY ARENT THAT BAD BUT RE-OCCURANT ONES CAN MAKE THE BACTERIA TRAVEL UP THE TUBES TO THE KIDNEYS AND THIS CAN LEAD TO KIDNEY PROBS. ANTIBIOTICS NEED TO BE TAKEN OR DRINK ALOT OF CRANBERRY JUICE.... IT REALLY DOES HELP. ITS UNROMANTIC BUT SEX MUST BE DONE AFETR YOU HAVE BOTH HAD A CLEAN

don't leave it un-treated , see your doctor,