Bridget
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Posted: 10-31-06 13:48pm
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My mom calls me every day to see if i've
felt "any twinges". It's driving me
crazy. We have caller id so I know it's
her and if I don't answer she just keeps
calling but won't leave a message. Then
today she called and we were talking about
how at my next appointment we're going to
schedule my induction for friday or monday
and she says "try to set it up for monday.
I have to work friday, saturday and
sunday". I said if given the choice I was
going with friday and she says "no, do it
monday". She knows she's not coming in
the delivery room and I don't want her
hanging around at my house in the days
after, she knows nick and I want our
privacy and alone time to spend with our
new baby so I don't know why she needs the
day off while i'm in the hospital. She
can come visit in the evening! It's
gotten to the point where if she doesn't
call one day I start to wonder what's
wrong.
People are weird.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-31-06 13:58pm
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Do it on .Friday. I hate that whole "have
it when it's a good time for me" thing.
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Bridget
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Posted: 10-31-06 14:00pm
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Oh, believe me, if given the choice i'm
picking friday! I love my mom and I know
she's excited but this is about me and
nick and we want our baby as soon as
possible!
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 10-31-06 14:02pm
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Aw thats a bit mean...Its just cos she
cares so she wants to be involved, its
about her aswell cos its her grandson.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-31-06 14:05pm
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It's not mean. Her mom can be excited as
much as she wants, but to ask .Bridget to
keep .Finn in until .Monday when she's
beyond uncomfortable and has a shot at
having him three days earlier, on top of
calling every single day... It's a bit
much.
She already said she loves her mom and
knows she's excited. But it *is* about
her and .Nick, and ultimately it's their
decision and they shouldn't be told to
change their decision for someone else's
convenience.
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Bridget
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Posted: 10-31-06 14:26pm
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | it's not mean. Her mom can
be excited as much as she wants, but to
ask .Bridget to keep .Finn in until
.Monday when she's beyond uncomfortable
and has a shot at having him three days
earlier, on top of calling every single
day... It's a bit much.
She already said she loves her mom and
knows she's excited. But it *is* about
her and .Nick, and ultimately it's their
decision and they shouldn't be told to
change their decision for someone else's
convenience. |
exactly! Thank you!
I want her (as well as my dad and
brothers) to visit in the hospital after
the baby is born. I just don't want her
hovering around out in the hallway or
popping into my room unexpectedly. Nick
and I want to spend the first few days
home with our new baby just the three of
us. After we have some alone time my mom
is welcome to come over whenever she
wants, especially after nick goes back to
work and i'm home alone. I'm not trying
to be mean, she's had her babies and now
it's my turn.
Oh, the other thing that got me was when
she said "i wish you'd had a shower, my
friends were really looking forward to
it". Maybe she could've started a new
tradition of a "grandmother shower". Then
she brings me a gift her friend gave her
and the card says "to kathie and baby"
(kathie is my mom), that struck me as a
bit odd.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-31-06 14:46pm
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Lol oh krissy, I would like a whipping
anyone else?
Orgi!
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rruiz
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Posted: 11-01-06 12:26pm
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Just smile and nod! Ignore every word
that comes out of peoples mouths! You
know a friend of mine was late like you
and her and her husband had sex and
contractions came like that night, and she
had her daughter the next morning. So
maybe it'll work for you as well. 
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Posted: 11-01-06 17:36pm
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We've been having sex against my husband's
will lol (he thinks we'll hurt her) and
it's not working. I have one big
contraction after I orgasm and then
nothing.
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Bridget
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Posted: 11-01-06 19:04pm
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I wanted to have sex last night but I was
denied, nick was tired and surly. Then he
emailed me today from work and told me he
wanted to do it this morning but didn't
think i'd appreciate being woken up that
early. I told him he didn't have to wake
me up, he could've just done his thing!
We're definitely doing it tonight. I'm in
it for the semen, he's up for it because
who knows how long it'll be before we can
do it again.
I've also heard that the woman having an
orgasm counteracts what the semen is
supposed to do. Anyone know if that's
true? Tmi, but every time we have sex he
gets me off first and lately i've just
wanted him to do his thing and see if the
semen=labor thing is true but I don't want
to hurt his feelings and be like "skip
that, just stick it in and get it over
with".
I feel a little "off" tonight anyway.
Maybe finn's coming soon!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-01-06 19:12pm
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I don't think they would counter-act each
other. Doesn't an orgasm help move the
semen along further, anyway?
Anyway, fingers crossed that your little
man introduces himself soon!
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Mabel
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Posted: 11-01-06 19:16pm
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Orgasms cause the uterus to contract. You
want that.
Semen can help to ripen the cervix.
Have fun!
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Posted: 11-01-06 22:46pm
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Yeah, my husband's scared to hurt her, but
the way I look at it, you never know when
we'll be able to do it again. I try to
bribe him into it about once a week. Lol
sometimes I feel like he's not attracted
to me b/c my belly's so big and it hurts
my feelings. I guess he's sincere when
he says he doesn't want to hurt her.
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Mabel
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Posted: 11-01-06 23:48pm
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You don't need your husband to achieve
orgasm
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candita_sky
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Posted: 11-02-06 11:55am
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Also try (sorry if tmi but worked for a
friend of mine ) having him in better
terms breast feed on you  it
gets things contracting down low my dr
also told us that when my 2 child was due
that trying nipple stimilation helps.
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