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Posted: 11-08-06 16:22pm

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why should a woman be punished for having too many abortions? I can understand that in the .U.K (where abortions are free) perhaps only a set amount should be paid for because of .N.H.S resources, but if you are stating it from a moral standpoint then it makes no sense.

If one social abortion is considered morally acceptable then why not ten?


because to me, evry abortion is unique. I wish that the system here was like the system in britain; then, after 6 or 7, they could stop being free. Since women have to pay anyway over here, and additional fine should be applied when they have too many abortions without a good enough reason.

I mean this for the women who do not use any form of protection and just sleep around aimlessly and have a dozen abortion without even considering what it is they are doing.


eiri, you would have women pay an additional fee for a surgical procedure if she needed it more than "x" number of times? Question this is akin to punishing a woman for having sex, yes?

Women who have an excessive number of abortions under their belt (no pun intended) have other issues in place and do not need to pay a fine-they need help in other areas of their lives.

Sometimes I think you are not quite pro-choice as I understand pc to be, anyways.


i am a moderate. I believe that both extremes are bad. Illegal abortion is bad, but so is unchecked abortion.

I would also ask a family to pay a fee for every child over x that they had.

I'm only talking about abortions done because of:
"i don't wanna be fat!" or
"i don't want stretch marks!" or
"i'm a stupid teen who keeps having unprotected sex even though people keep saying I should get pills!" or
"i'm too lazy to take birth control. I'll just sleep around with dozens of men and abort babies for the rest of my fertile life." or
"i cheated and I dunno what color the baby is and I don't want my husband to know!" (my personal favorite)
etc.

If a woman had 7 abortions for any of the above reasons, and none of the abortions were medically needed to save her life, then I feel that she should have to start paying for the abortions (going off the wishful thinking that abortions were free like in britan). Two abortions of this type may be needed for "mental health", but seven??

If for some odd reason woman had 6 social abortions and then needed one to save her life, then obviouly she wouldn't have to pay, even if she needed nine more to save her life. Saving her life is completely different.

As for the mental health of the woman, there is something else that would be included with this system. The woman coming in for her sixth (we're saying seven is the one where you stat having to pay) should be given a type of birth control that her body can use.

Abortions because of failed birth control are not on that list, for obvious reasons. Women on birth control are actually trying. I think women who don't try at all are the ones who should start being fined/have to pay outright.

No, I don't want to force a baby on anyone. But I feel responsibility should also be taken. Sex can cause babies. Protecting yourself is the most you can do (while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished if science doesn't work.

If a woman is found for whom no birth control works, and she doesn't want a hysterectomy, then she of course would be excluded too. She's not aborting because she is amoral, she's doing it because she has to.

Also, religious reasons would be excluded too. Although if you're not on bc pills cause of religion, I don't see how you can approve of abortion...

I want to punish the women who don't try, who refuse to try. I feel they are disrespecting their bodies.

Are there loopholes here? God yes. But it's a start.
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Posted: 11-08-06 19:03pm

eiri wrote:
i want to punish the women who don't try, who refuse to try. I feel they are disrespecting their bodies.


and you are disrespecting their bodies by "punishing" them for what you don't like. Anti choice bitch.
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Posted: 11-08-06 22:00pm

justgottaloveit wrote:
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i want to punish the women who don't try, who refuse to try. I feel they are disrespecting their bodies.


and you are disrespecting their bodies by "punishing" them for what you don't like. [...]


it is a person's choice to steal from a man. It is the choice of the people to punish the theif for this act.

I see no difference.

There is a difference between having a right to one's body, and the responsibility that we all owe to life in general.
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Posted: 11-08-06 22:39pm

eiri wrote:
it is a person's choice to steal from a man. It is the choice of the people to punish the theif for this act.

I see no difference.


you wouldn't, anti choice cunt. Is the man stealing another man's organs? No? Big difference, hermie.
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Posted: 11-09-06 00:26am

eiri wrote:
no, I don't want to force a baby on anyone. But I feel responsibility should also be taken. Sex can cause babies. Protecting yourself is the most you can do (while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished if science doesn't work.


unfortunately, although I understand you don't want to do this...It will be the end result. You have to balance what you don't want to do and how to avoid that from happening. Because if you really don't want to force a baby on anyone, it wouldn't matter the reasons or number of times for abortion...

I can understand your position, but I don't see how you have addressed the mental health needs of women who find themselves in this situation. Just punishing a woman for her behavior without addressing why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh, conservative point of view.

(anyone else giddy about the election results in the usa?)
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Posted: 11-09-06 01:29am

justgottaloveit wrote:
eiri wrote:
it is a person's choice to steal from a man. It is the choice of the people to punish the theif for this act.

I see no difference.


you wouldn't [...] . Is the man stealing another man's organs? No? Big difference [...] .


he could be. Organ trafficing does happen.
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Posted: 11-09-06 01:37am

birch wrote:
eiri wrote:
no, I don't want to force a baby on anyone. But I feel responsibility should also be taken. Sex can cause babies. Protecting yourself is the most you can do (while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished if science doesn't work.


unfortunately, although I understand you don't want to do this...It will be the end result. You have to balance what you don't want to do and how to avoid that from happening. Because if you really don't want to force a baby on anyone, it wouldn't matter the reasons or number of times for abortion...


a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone though. I'm not asking to make excessive abortions illegal, I want these women to be forced to pay a price because the ones who are just using abortion as their sole form of birth control even if they are capable of being on the pill or patch are abusing their rights.

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i can understand your position, but I don't see how you have addressed the mental health needs of women who find themselves in this situation.


which women do you mean? The women who chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that they could have instead prevented from ever existing? I believe they are mentally off and need medicating.

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just punishing a woman for her behavior without addressing why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh, conservative point of view.


no, I agree they should be put on some kind of medicine, or, put through some kind of therapy or program. I entirely believe this. I also think they should be given a birth control tht works with their body, since i'm only talking about the women who could use birth control and don't, for no good reason except their lazy.

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of course! Smile
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Posted: 11-09-06 10:46am

Even though were pro-choice, some of us still dont agree with some peoples decision but we have to turn our head and still provide unbiased support, eiri I know how you feel but the world isnt like that and we both know it.

The government needs to provide better support to the already mothers not stupid abstinence programs or stupid caca that will never benefit anyone unfortunatly our government is corrupted!
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Posted: 11-09-06 12:01pm

eiri wrote:
birch wrote:
eiri wrote:
no, I don't want to force a baby on anyone. But I feel responsibility should also be taken. Sex can cause babies. Protecting yourself is the most you can do (while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished if science doesn't work.


unfortunately, although I understand you don't want to do this...It will be the end result. You have to balance what you don't want to do and how to avoid that from happening. Because if you really don't want to force a baby on anyone, it wouldn't matter the reasons or number of times for abortion...


a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone though. I'm not asking to make excessive abortions illegal, I want these women to be forced to pay a price because the ones who are just using abortion as their sole form of birth control even if they are capable of being on the pill or patch are abusing their rights.


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i can understand your position, but I don't see how you have addressed the mental health needs of women who find themselves in this situation.


which women do you mean? The women who chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that they could have instead prevented from ever existing? I believe they are mentally off and need medicating.


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just punishing a woman for her behavior without addressing why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh, conservative point of view.


no, I agree they should be put on some kind of medicine, or, put through some kind of therapy or program. I entirely believe this. I also think they should be given a birth control tht works with their body, since i'm only talking about the women who could use birth control and don't, for no good reason except their lazy.


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of course! Smile


i think I understand what you mean, although i'm not convinced a "fine" for excessive abortions is a good idea.

I'm not convinced it's in society's be interest to be a watchdog for women who get multiple abortions...But i'm not convinced that it's not either, as it is a surgery that should be avoided for the health of the woman.

I'm a little in the middle on this.

I am glad you advocate mental health services for women who have found themselves in this position.
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Posted: 11-09-06 16:48pm

birch wrote:
eiri wrote:
birch wrote:
eiri wrote:
no, I don't want to force a baby on anyone. But I feel responsibility should also be taken. Sex can cause babies. Protecting yourself is the most you can do (while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished if science doesn't work.


unfortunately, although I understand you don't want to do this...It will be the end result. You have to balance what you don't want to do and how to avoid that from happening. Because if you really don't want to force a baby on anyone, it wouldn't matter the reasons or number of times for abortion...


a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone though. I'm not asking to make excessive abortions illegal, I want these women to be forced to pay a price because the ones who are just using abortion as their sole form of birth control even if they are capable of being on the pill or patch are abusing their rights.



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i can understand your position, but I don't see how you have addressed the mental health needs of women who find themselves in this situation.


which women do you mean? The women who chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that they could have instead prevented from ever existing? I believe they are mentally off and need medicating.



Quote:
just punishing a woman for her behavior without addressing why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh, conservative point of view.


no, I agree they should be put on some kind of medicine, or, put through some kind of therapy or program. I entirely believe this. I also think they should be given a birth control tht works with their body, since i'm only talking about the women who could use birth control and don't, for no good reason except their lazy.

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(anyone else giddy about the election results in the usa?)


of course! Smile


i think I understand what you mean, although i'm not convinced a "fine" for excessive abortions is a good idea.

I'm not convinced it's in society's be interest to be a watchdog for women who get multiple abortions...But i'm not convinced that it's not either, as it is a surgery that should be avoided for the health of the woman.

I'm a little in the middle on this.

I am glad you advocate mental health services for women who have found themselves in this position.


*nod* it's a hard place to be, the middle, because then both sides yell at you, complaining that you aren't what you say you are.
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