why should a woman be
punished for having too many abortions?
I can understand that in the .U.K (where
abortions are free) perhaps only a set
amount should be paid for because of
.N.H.S resources, but if you are stating
it from a moral standpoint then it makes
no sense.
If one social abortion is considered
morally acceptable then why not
ten?
because to me, evry abortion is unique.
I wish that the system here was like the
system in britain; then, after 6 or 7,
they could stop being free. Since women
have to pay anyway over here, and
additional fine should be applied when
they have too many abortions without a
good enough reason.
I mean this for the women who do not use
any form of protection and just sleep
around aimlessly and have a dozen abortion
without even considering what it is they
are doing.
eiri, you would have women pay an
additional fee for a surgical procedure if
she needed it more than "x" number of
times?
this is akin to punishing a woman for
having sex, yes?
Women who have an excessive number of
abortions under their belt (no pun
intended) have other issues in place and
do not need to pay a fine-they need help
in other areas of their lives.
Sometimes I think you are not quite
pro-choice as I understand pc to be,
anyways.
i am a moderate. I believe that both
extremes are bad. Illegal abortion is
bad, but so is unchecked abortion.
I would also ask a family to pay a fee for
every child over x that they had.
I'm only talking about
abortions done because of:
"i don't wanna be fat!" or
"i don't want stretch marks!" or
"i'm a stupid teen who keeps having
unprotected sex even though people keep
saying I should get pills!" or
"i'm too lazy to take birth control. I'll
just sleep around with dozens of men and
abort babies for the rest of my fertile
life." or
"i cheated and I dunno what color the baby
is and I don't want my husband to know!"
(my personal favorite)
etc.
If a woman had 7 abortions for any of the
above reasons, and none of the abortions
were medically needed to save her life,
then I feel that she should have to start
paying for the abortions (going off the
wishful thinking that abortions were free
like in britan). Two abortions of this
type may be needed for "mental health",
but seven??
If for some odd reason woman had 6
social abortions and then needed one to
save her life, then obviouly she wouldn't
have to pay, even if she needed nine more
to save her life. Saving her life is
completely different.
As for the mental health of the woman,
there is something else that would be
included with this system. The woman
coming in for her sixth (we're saying
seven is the one where you stat having to
pay) should be given a type of birth
control that her body can use.
Abortions because of failed birth control
are not on that list, for obvious reasons.
Women on birth control are actually
trying. I think women who don't try at
all are the ones who should start being
fined/have to pay outright.
No, I don't want to force a baby on
anyone. But I feel responsibility should
also be taken. Sex can cause babies.
Protecting yourself is the most you can do
(while not abstaining) so you shouldn't be
punished if science doesn't work.
If a woman is found for whom no birth
control works, and she doesn't want a
hysterectomy, then she of course would be
excluded too. She's not aborting because
she is amoral, she's doing it because she
has to.
Also, religious reasons would be excluded
too. Although if you're not on bc pills
cause of religion, I don't see how you can
approve of abortion...
I want to punish the women who don't try,
who refuse to try. I feel they are
disrespecting their bodies.
Are there loopholes here? God yes. But
it's a start.
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justgottaloveit
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Posted: 11-08-06 19:03pm
eiri
wrote:
i want to punish the women
who don't try, who refuse to try. I feel
they are disrespecting their
bodies.
and you are disrespecting their bodies by
"punishing" them for what you don't like.
Anti choice bitch.
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Posted: 11-08-06 22:00pm
justgottaloveit
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
i want to punish the women
who don't try, who refuse to try. I
feel they are disrespecting their
bodies.
and you are disrespecting their bodies by
"punishing" them for what you don't like.
[...]
it is a person's choice to steal from a
man. It is the choice of the people to
punish the theif for this act.
I see no difference.
There is a difference between having a
right to one's body, and the
responsibility that we all owe to life in
general.
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justgottaloveit
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Posted: 11-08-06 22:39pm
eiri
wrote:
it is a person's choice to
steal from a man. It is the choice of
the people to punish the theif for this
act.
I see no
difference.
you wouldn't, anti choice cunt. Is
the man stealing another man's organs?
No? Big difference, hermie.
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Birch
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Posted: 11-09-06 00:26am
eiri
wrote:
no, I don't want to force a
baby on anyone. But I feel
responsibility should also be taken. Sex
can cause babies. Protecting yourself is
the most you can do (while not abstaining)
so you shouldn't be punished if science
doesn't work.
unfortunately, although I understand you
don't want to do this...It will be the end
result. You have to balance what you
don't want to do and how to avoid that
from happening. Because if you really
don't want to force a baby on anyone, it
wouldn't matter the reasons or number of
times for abortion...
I can understand your position, but I
don't see how you have addressed the
mental health needs of women who find
themselves in this situation. Just
punishing a woman for her behavior without
addressing why that behavior occurs is a
very...Oh, conservative point of view.
(anyone else giddy about the election
results in the usa?)
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Posted: 11-09-06 01:29am
justgottaloveit
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
it is a person's choice to
steal from a man. It is the choice of
the people to punish the theif for this
act.
I see no
difference.
you wouldn't [...] . Is the man
stealing another man's organs? No?
Big difference [...]
.
he could be. Organ trafficing does
happen.
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Posted: 11-09-06 01:37am
birch
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
no, I don't want to force a
baby on anyone. But I feel
responsibility should also be taken.
Sex can cause babies. Protecting
yourself is the most you can do (while not
abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished
if science doesn't
work.
unfortunately, although I understand you
don't want to do this...It will be the end
result. You have to balance what you
don't want to do and how to avoid that
from happening. Because if you really
don't want to force a baby on anyone, it
wouldn't matter the reasons or number of
times for
abortion...
a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone
though. I'm not asking to make excessive
abortions illegal, I want these women to
be forced to pay a price because the ones
who are just using abortion as their sole
form of birth control even if they are
capable of being on the pill or patch are
abusing their rights.
Quote:
tr>
i can understand
your position, but I don't see how you
have addressed the mental health needs of
women who find themselves in this
situation.
which women do you mean? The women who
chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that
they could have instead prevented from
ever existing? I believe they are
mentally off and need medicating.
Quote:
tr>
just punishing a
woman for her behavior without addressing
why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh,
conservative point of
view.
no, I agree they should be put on some
kind of medicine, or, put through some
kind of therapy or program. I entirely
believe this. I also think they should be
given a birth control tht works with their
body, since i'm only talking about the
women who could use birth control and
don't, for no good reason except their
lazy.
Quote:
tr>
(anyone else
giddy about the election results in the
usa?)
of course!
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Posted: 11-09-06 10:46am
Even though were pro-choice, some of us
still dont agree with some peoples
decision but we have to turn our head and
still provide unbiased support, eiri I
know how you feel but the world isnt like
that and we both know it.
The government needs to provide better
support to the already mothers not stupid
abstinence programs or stupid caca that
will never benefit anyone unfortunatly our
government is corrupted!
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Birch
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Posted: 11-09-06 12:01pm
eiri
wrote:
birch
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
no, I don't want to force a
baby on anyone. But I feel
responsibility should also be taken.
Sex can cause babies. Protecting
yourself is the most you can do (while not
abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished
if science doesn't
work.
unfortunately, although I understand you
don't want to do this...It will be the end
result. You have to balance what you
don't want to do and how to avoid that
from happening. Because if you really
don't want to force a baby on anyone, it
wouldn't matter the reasons or number of
times for
abortion...
a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone
though. I'm not asking to make excessive
abortions illegal, I want these women to
be forced to pay a price because the ones
who are just using abortion as their sole
form of birth control even if they are
capable of being on the pill or patch are
abusing their rights.
Quote:
tr>
i can understand
your position, but I don't see how you
have addressed the mental health needs of
women who find themselves in this
situation.
which women do you mean? The women who
chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that
they could have instead prevented from
ever existing? I believe they are
mentally off and need medicating.
Quote:
tr>
just punishing a
woman for her behavior without addressing
why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh,
conservative point of
view.
no, I agree they should be put on some
kind of medicine, or, put through some
kind of therapy or program. I entirely
believe this. I also think they should
be given a birth control tht works with
their body, since i'm only talking about
the women who could use birth control and
don't, for no good reason except their
lazy.
Quote:
tr>
(anyone else
giddy about the election results in the
usa?)
of course!
i think I understand what you mean,
although i'm not convinced a "fine" for
excessive abortions is a good idea.
I'm not convinced it's in society's be
interest to be a watchdog for women who
get multiple abortions...But i'm not
convinced that it's not either, as it is a
surgery that should be avoided for the
health of the woman.
I'm a little in the middle on this.
I am glad you advocate mental health
services for women who have found
themselves in this position.
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Posted: 11-09-06 16:48pm
birch
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
birch
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
no, I don't want to force a
baby on anyone. But I feel
responsibility should also be taken.
Sex can cause babies. Protecting
yourself is the most you can do (while not
abstaining) so you shouldn't be punished
if science doesn't
work.
unfortunately, although I understand you
don't want to do this...It will be the end
result. You have to balance what you
don't want to do and how to avoid that
from happening. Because if you really
don't want to force a baby on anyone, it
wouldn't matter the reasons or number of
times for
abortion...
a fine is not forcing a baby on anyone
though. I'm not asking to make
excessive abortions illegal, I want these
women to be forced to pay a price because
the ones who are just using abortion as
their sole form of birth control even if
they are capable of being on the pill or
patch are abusing their rights.
Quote:
tr>
i can understand
your position, but I don't see how you
have addressed the mental health needs of
women who find themselves in this
situation.
which women do you mean? The women who
chose abortion, chose to kill a fetus that
they could have instead prevented from
ever existing? I believe they are
mentally off and need medicating.
Quote:
tr>
just punishing a
woman for her behavior without addressing
why that behavior occurs is a very...Oh,
conservative point of
view.
no, I agree they should be put on some
kind of medicine, or, put through some
kind of therapy or program. I entirely
believe this. I also think they should
be given a birth control tht works with
their body, since i'm only talking about
the women who could use birth control and
don't, for no good reason except their
lazy.
Quote:
tr>
(anyone else
giddy about the election results in the
usa?)
of course!
i think I understand what you mean,
although i'm not convinced a "fine" for
excessive abortions is a good idea.
I'm not convinced it's in society's be
interest to be a watchdog for women who
get multiple abortions...But i'm not
convinced that it's not either, as it is a
surgery that should be avoided for the
health of the woman.
I'm a little in the middle on this.
I am glad you advocate mental health
services for women who have found
themselves in this
position.
*nod* it's a hard place to be, the middle,
because then both sides yell at you,
complaining that you aren't what you say
you are.