Pms And Overt Questions About Race

Girl, i'll answer those questions for you.
He's an adorable little boy with an attitude just as big as could be!Don't let the pms get to you....They are just trying to figure out what it takes to get such a beautiful baby
.V.I.V.E .L.O.S .L.A.T.I.N.O.S! (did I say that right?)

i love .Chu no matter what 'race' he is, and so does .Adriana

My girl loves her .Chu no matter what race he is. She a little melting pot herself!!

I've gotten the "is she mixed" comment too many times. And yes she is. But not with the "traditional" black and white mix.

I'm .Creole and .Baron is .Sicilian. That should explain it pretty well. Look up .Sicily and .Creole and you'll see why her skin and eyes are so dark.

Mah chu will f*ck somebody up!! Hahahaha...That's mah boy!!!!!

Sorry ladies, he's taken!!!

sarah

Yeah...Must be curiosity.
I'm like you, I don't think "what is .Adriana's race?" she's my baby...Period.
My spanish is a bit off. Lol. Probably why it takes awhile to get my point across when I speak with my hubby's family. Oh well....

That sucks about the pms.. But hopefully that will fix peoples way of thinking.. Im white myself so is shawn so I wont have that problem with people asking me.. So I dont think I will ever completly understand.. But yeah it probably does suck getting asked all the time.. I know my grandma hates when people ask where she is from because of her ackcent..

We were at a wedding reception a few weeks ago and this rude young woman came over and asked me "what is she mixed with, I mean..What is she called?" and then she had the nerve to ask if she could hold her! Yeeeeeeeeeeah right. Not even all my (extended) family members have held her, let alone some strange ass rude person.

My sister is really dark and everyone always assumes she's mixed. A guy actually came and sat beside her on the bus and he was like "man, what race are you? It's so great to see hot girls of colour. All these white girls are such b*tches". But since I was little people didn't think we were sisters because i'm whiter than sour cream and she definiatly looks mixed. Though we never got offended, or seen it as rude. Maybe I just don't understand, but what about the question makes you mad? If I see a person here that's native (i don't ask) but I wonder what kind of native they are, and would like to ask. I'm not sure what's rude about it? Unless their race bothers them and it's something they don't want to talk about. I got asked a lot because of my accent and last name where I was from and I never thought it was rude, cause i'm proud to be afrikaans... Maybe I just don't understand, but why does it bother you?

I failed spanish when I took it in grade 10... *sigh* I suck with language.. I always failed french too..

Hahahaha...You know what sucks. I get the race card everyday!!

Oh wow, her skin tone is beautiful!! Is her daddy spanish or black??!!?

I'm like, neither....But thanks!!

Sarah

Here it is manditory to take french from grade 4 to grade 8, then in grade 9 u can choose spanish, french (and at some schools german or japanese) well I decided to forget french and try spanish... Nope didnt work lol... I had to take spanish 9 in grade 10 because in grade 9 it was too full... But yeah I stunk horribly.. I had the worst grade in the class.. And I actually tried.. I felt like a person

Oh man people are lame! They actually pm you about that!? They need to get lives!

I think people are just curious and some people don't know how to put it tactfully. Take me for example... I'm first generation american, both my parents are mexican, were in fact born there.

I look nothing like a mexican would be expected to look. I actually look somewhat asian. I have gotten "are you: korean, japanese, chinese, hmong, hawaiin, filipino, and even punjabi" and most of them don't even look like each other! I just shrug it off. But tanya, I can see why tigresa would get annoyed, I know I get a little weirded out when people constantly ask "are you asian" and I say "waaaaay off, i'm mexican..."

i even had some lady come up to me at work and ask "what are you? Are you asian, cuz your eyes do this ::pulls the skin around her eyes up::"

you just have to get used to it, people are going to be curious, and most people now a days can be pretty tactless... Just let them think what they want, you know what your cute baby chu is, he's so freaking adorable, I love his hair.

Wow well I hope you arent pissed at the pm I sent u, cos yeh everyone I asked what race he is. But I asked in a nice way, I wasnt trying to insult you or anything like that! So I dunno what other people said in pm's but I hope you werent talking about mine. Anyway I asked because I think hes adorable, I think mixed race babies are the cutest, so I was just curious about your son. Geez!! Some people are too sensitive. I mean if you're proud of your race why are u making such a big deal out of telling people about your son? I dont get it.

My sisters son is half english, quarter indian and quarter eastern european. So his mom is white, and his dad is dark tanned, and he himself is light tanned... He's the cutest little thing ever, and people often compliment his looks and ask my sister about his race or his dads race. Shes not bothered at all, cos they ask because they think hes really cute, they dont make nasty remarks about it. Shouldnt u be flattered not insulted? I really dont understand you guys' reaction...Oh well!

Honestly ive asked what ethnicity/race people are before not to be rude but to find out and maybe talk about it some.

Yeh exactly, I dont see what the big deal is....Lots of people ask all the time.