Hello guys, long time ago I posted here that I was having problems with my wife because of pe problems. I was ejaculating 1-2 mins after intercourse. After doing researches online and buying books about pe I learned that everything was mentally. I started practicing and talking to my wife about how I felt about the situation and her not helping me. After all the talk we had I felt relaxed and confident that she was going to help me. Guest what? It worked, I started to last 10-20 mins intercourse and with a very hard erection, I noticed I wasn't anxioust nor worry about ejaculating quick. She was very happy and we where making love very often, I was the happiest man on earth. Until one day we lasted two weeks without having sex and when we did I lost control again. She got really upset and started acting the same way she did when I was having the problem.

Now i'm in the same place where I started, i'm feeling afraid to ejeculate early and frustrated that she will get mad if I do. I don't know what to do, I love my wife as I started before, but this situation is driving me crazy.
She doesn't want to make love with me, and we are lasting weeks without trying. I've been asking her to try to help me again so we can both enjoy it as we did not long ago. But her answer is that I should put my self in her possition and that i'm not pleasing her. Those things she's telling me are getting into my head and is making my problem worse.

I know if she put her part and understand me I can relax and last longer but is hard with her.

Please advice me of any solution.

Thanks