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Q: 17pregnant With Twins And Alone!!!

asked by: lil_cutie on October 27th, 2006

Experienced User

Hey gurls.. I'm 17 (18 next month) i'm 16 weeks and 4 days pregnant with twins. My due date is april 10th 2007.

When I was 10 wks and 4 days I started bleeding like a normal period on september 8th I knew it wasn't normal. So I went to my doctor and she said if I get cramping and it gets heavier to go back... I knew it could of been a miscarriage because thats how it started out with my last pregnancy.

My bf was really happy up until I was 6 weeks pg.. Then we jus got into fight every day for about 3 weeks and we split up when I was 9 weeks. He want nothing to do with the pregnany of the twins.

Everything has been really hard for the last 10 weeks. I jus don't know wat to do.

Replies(14)

channy-leigh

replied on October 27th, 2006

Experienced User

Wow your in for a rough ride..

Im trying but I really dont know what to say, I feel so sorry for you, most girls have it hard being single with one child, but two at once..

Anyway you should keep coming back and posting at this forum, its the best for advice, you will really like it here..

lil_cutie

replied on October 27th, 2006

Experienced User

Hey thnx.. I went to another teen pregnancy website when I found out I was preg for some help but they were all health forum and calling me a liar and stuff.. So I heard bout this site so I came here.

Jules

replied on October 27th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Why would they think you were lying?

Have you told your parents? I hope they are being supportive.

lil_cutie

replied on October 27th, 2006

Experienced User

I didn't hang around to find out I jus got fed up and I left.

Yes my parents know I told them when I was 8 weeks pregnant. When I first told my parents they were really shocked and angry and upset but now that they have had bout 2 months to get used to them being grandparents there supporting me.

I forced my ex to tell his parents but I practly told his parents myself cos he was to scared to tell them. I told them nearly 3 weeks ago and I haven't heard from them since I told them.

Becky

replied on October 27th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry to here about your situation. Have you spoke to tamba? They give support to people expecting multiples.

Google tamba dot org dot uk

there is also gingerbread which gives support for lone parents

lil_cutie

replied on October 27th, 2006

Experienced User

Thnx for that website I took a look at that website and it looks like a good website.

Becky

replied on October 27th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Good luck with everything. I'm sure you'll get support from your family

alexa84

replied on October 27th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

Congrats with your pregnancy. And welcome, there is alot of people on here that will give you good support, including me Smile

good luck with everything! If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to write me!

AlliE_18

replied on October 27th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Welcome and congrats on your pregnancy! Im glad your family is supporting you. Im 17, almost 18 too, and my son is 7 months.

diamondsz

replied on October 27th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Congrats!!! Trust me you will havce your hands full!

lil_cutie

replied on October 28th, 2006

Experienced User

Thnx guys I had a really rough nite last nite.. I kept throwing up every hour and when it stopped I couldn't get comfortable

lil_cutie

replied on October 29th, 2006

Experienced User

I rang my ex last nite cos I wanted to know what was going on after I told his parents and he told me that they wanted em to get an abortion. I couldn't believe it.. I burst into tears I spent half the night crying. I'm really hating this pregnany.. Everything jus seems to be going wrong for me.

HcoBrunette06

replied on October 29th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Don't hate the pregnancy, hate the people that are treating you badly, now you're seeing their true colors! Maybe if this hadn't happened you'd be stuck in a relationship with him and this would happen later down the road when you couldn't just "jump" out of the relationship. Maybe it's meant to be? These babies are going to be the most amazing people in your life, don't hate it, try to look at the positive things, and forget the people that are trying to talk you down.

Jules

replied on October 29th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

I agree with 'brunette', it isn't your babies' fault that people are treating you crap, try not to let things stop you from enjoying your pregnancy. I know throwing up so much is bloody horrible but it will pass and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about you. You are going to have two gorgeous babies and, yes, at times it will be hard, but you will come through it.

This could turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you!

Chin up, duck! Smile

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