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Q: Advance Apologies
asked by: Kia on October 26th, 2006
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Between now and monday I will be in here to keep an eye on things but I don't know how much more than that.

Saturday is 2 years since I lost 0liver. I'm not sure how i'm going to handle it.
I mean i've just started to come out the bright side from a long depression and I don't want to go back to it, but at the same time oct28 does wierd things to me still. I'm not over it, but it does feel a bit easier this year, but then I feel guilty for not feeling as devastated as I did last year so i'm beating myself up a bit.

Just bear with me for a few days ok.

So this is advance apologies if I snap at anyone or if I am short with you or if you think I was too strict on a post or whatever.

Feel free to pm me if you think i'm being a health forum to you because I really don't mean it.

Hugz kia xxx
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on October 26th, 2006
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I'm so sorry .Kia. You and .Oliver will be in my prayers!!!

Just know that you are a strong woman and you *will* be able to pull through this!!

Sarah
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Bridget
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Oh kia, i'm so sorry. Please don't feel guilty because you don't think you're as devastated as you should be. You're obviously still grieving but time heals all wounds and eventually things get easier, even though they still hurt. We're all here for you!
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Aaaww hugs .Kia. You and .Oliver are in my prayers. I know what you are going thru. It's hard but try to keep your head up.


My prayer's are with you.
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Melissa_20
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Things will be fine kia! I love you girl!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 26th, 2006
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~*big hugs*~

we love you .Kia!
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diamondsz
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Hugz kia~!
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HcoBrunette06
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Love you, kia. I'll be thinking of you on the 28th! You and oliver are in my prayers, too!
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Becky
replied on October 26th, 2006
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I know what you're going through kia. My pain is still raw. I don't think it evr goes away.

that goes for all of you girls
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Jules
replied on October 27th, 2006
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Don't feel guilty if you're not feeling the pain so keenly as you did last year or when it happened, that's natural and it doesn't mean you love your little boy any less. Oliver knows his mummy loves him and that you always will.

My thoughts are with you kia, you have nothing to feel guilty about and feel free to snap away if it helps!

(((hugs)))
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ThriftyGal
replied on October 27th, 2006
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Kia I am soooo sorry. I know how you feel about feeling guilty about not moarning enough or something. I get like that every year on my oupa's birthdays and the day he died. I think oliver would want you to be happy. You aren't betraying him by moarning less than you have in the past!

We all love you.
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Kia
replied on October 28th, 2006
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Can some one tell what what was funny about this post? Shocked
i didn't think it was anything to laugh at.
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Becky
replied on October 28th, 2006
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It might of just been some confusion on allie's part. I'm sure she wouldn't be that cruel...

Or maybe she would...

I don't know Question
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Jules
replied on October 28th, 2006
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Have I missed summat? Confused
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Kia
replied on October 28th, 2006
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No I don't think so either, cause I love allie to bits.

See so I just removed it thinking maybe it was posted in the wrong post - it happens - i've done it before and so have other people.

But she said no it was posted in the right post. And I thought maybe I missed something Confused

Allie, i'm a bit hurt and confused, please explain hunni.
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Becky
replied on October 28th, 2006
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Allies been really nice lately. I can't understand why she would laugh at something like that- especially being a mum herself...

I'm hoping she comes here to explain herself Shocked
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AlliE_18
replied on October 28th, 2006
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Kia I sent u a pm.
I wrote something stupid on this thread too?
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Kia
replied on October 28th, 2006
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All sorted and understood.
I figured it was a misunderstanding.
Hope you're ok hunni Crying or Very sad
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seksiHily
replied on October 28th, 2006
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I love you kia I already posted to you elsewhere but I love u so much I gotta say it again!
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Kia
replied on October 28th, 2006
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Awww hilly :d me wubs oo too girlie always have n always will.

You're one of my longest, most trusted friends... That i've never met lol
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