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Me and my boyfriend tried to do it doggy style, and it doesn't work. Like he cant reach or something. I watch porn so I know how to do it, and that's my favorite positon, but with him, he can't. Are there any ways to help to do it? I don't feel comfortable being on top. I don't know why. So when we do it he's on top, and I never get off. So any feedback is appreciated.. Laughing
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replied October 25th, 2006
Well what exactly won't reach, is it a height problem, is he lesser equipped?
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replied October 26th, 2006
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Are you trying to do it with you both kneeling on the bed?
If he isn't experienced that could be difficult.
Try a few variations - you kneel on the edge of the bed (sofa/stairs/table) and he stands on the floor.

Spread your knees a bit further so you lower yourself.
Tip your hips backwards so that you present more of your coochie to him.

I pretty much had to give up with this position because while my fella is taller than me (he is 5'7" and I am 5'2") - I have longer legs (how I don't know but my legs are maybe 6-8 inches longer than his?!?!?!).
He lacks confidence too so this just wasnt good for us lol

also try "scissors".
You both lay facing the same way with him behind you.
He is propped up on his side on his elbow.
You lift you top leg and drape it over him (yes this mean putting your leg behind you lol) and he can enter you from there.
Depending on your flexibility you can (with or without his help) lift your leg up higher instead of over him.

Another thing is try going on top but facing away from him - kinda of like doggy style but as if you both fell over backwards lol
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replied October 28th, 2006
As a guy, let me just tell you that aside from learning exactly where and how to penetrate, there really isn't much we can do to make doggy style work when it isn't working already. It's all about the girl's position.

Kia_breizzze laid out a lot of good information. If your back is arched like a scared cat's and your hips are turned in like you're about to stand up, there's no way he's going to be able to penetrate and thrust. Make your back like a u, and pull your hips up and out as if you were trying to get your tailbone to touch the back of your head. Not literally, of course; do all this to the extent that you are comfortable. But ultimately, you want to make your "line of entry" parallel to the ground. Lowering your face to the pillow or whatever may help as well.

Once you've set that up for him, all he really needs to do is find where to penetrate - which can be surprisingly tricky no matter how used to doing it from the front he is. Just let him start by aiming low - like, around where your clit is - and then slide his penis up while continuing the forward pressure. It may feel weird for you, but he should hit the spot naturally this way.

And remember, if even you've started off successfully, that doesn't mean you should shift your position too much. Even if it doesn't make it impossible for him to continue, it can actually hurt if your hips move inward too much during deep penetration.
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replied October 28th, 2006
carebearemt wrote:
well what exactly won't reach, is it a height problem, is he lesser equipped?


my last boyfriend was short and lesser equipped...If it's either of those, or even if not, you might want to try kneeling on something (futon? Ottoman? Something about that height) and have him stand up behind you...
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replied October 29th, 2006
Make It Work?
Actually what everyone posted is near to correct about "things to do... And thind to know"

i'll just add that it may be uncomfortable to be on top for you as he is not really ready for the back but I believe the two of you can get over what you don't like if it pleases the other.... Bringing pleasure to your lover makes ya feel so much better... Opening up to new positions and styles is actually invigorating and brings up self esteem and perfprmance...

Also a help ful hint is a towel.... No one thinks a towel and blanket will help but it does for beginners... All you do is assume position with your legs wide... Yes he does have to penatrate but with a towel acting as a saddle to pull you into him can help him stay errected instead of scarring him and making him go soft... Both of you might find this enjoyable... Yes it is uncomfortable at first... But in the end you know you two came through to please eachother... And it's worth it
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replied October 29th, 2006
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Thanks for all the replies Laughing
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replied October 29th, 2006
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Did it work? Wink
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replied October 30th, 2006
Doggy Style Position
# basic doggy style sexual position
the position is very simple. In essence it means both partners are on their knees, with one partner penetrating the other from behind.

# standing doggy style sexual position
you can achieve the same penetration and sensation of the rear entry position with one or both partners standing.When standing, the partner being penetrated bends at the waist, spreads their legs, and uses a solid object such as a wall to support themselves as the other partner thrusts into them.

# the bed & doggy style sexual position
another variation on the doggy style sexual position is to have one of the partners penetrated at the end of the bed, with their upper body on the bed, and their lower body off the bed.
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replied October 30th, 2006
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Well
kia_breizzze wrote:
did it work? Wink
it did it for me Wink
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replied October 30th, 2006
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How does he not reach? I would die not being able to do it doggy style...Maybe just stick it in for him :d
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replied October 30th, 2006
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sherry24 wrote:
me and my boyfriend tried to do it doggy style, and it doesn't work. Like he cant reach or something. I watch porn so I know how to do it, and that's my favorite positon, but with him, he can't. Are there any ways to help to do it? I don't feel comfortable being on top. I don't know why. So when we do it he's on top, and I never get off. So any feedback is appreciated.. Laughing


i am a guy who can relate. I'm like "carebearemt" mentions "lesser equipped". My penis is only 4.5" long (before ya'll ask, yes that is erect! I've been asked before!). Smile so I have trouble with doggy and other positions as well! Embarassed
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replied October 30th, 2006
crazyness24 wrote:
how does he not reach? I would die not being able to do it doggy style...Maybe just stick it in for him :d


in my case, its my penis thats too short to reach. Most positions either I don't reach or slip out too easily. Best is woman on top.
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replied October 31st, 2006
I'm pretty short too, about 4.5" erect. Doggie style is actually a pretty easy position for me provided the girl lowers her upper body to the bed, which tilts her genitals backward. We usually have her kneel at the edge of the bed and I enter, standing. I find the easiest position is woman on top or missionary with her legs over my shoulders (my favorite).
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replied March 18th, 2010
Honestly for me and my boyfriend doggy is the best ever for both of us. I would be on my knees on the end of the bed, while he stands, and he is at the perfect hight to enter me. the is no bount about it. But as soon as he does enter me, the pleasure is intense!
Nothing can beat that!
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replied March 21st, 2010
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Doggy is the absolute best way to get the attention to your clitoris to get you off during intercourse. Both you and your partner have easy access to stick your hands down there and rub your clitoris while he is inside you.

If you have a g-spot and you drop your upper body lower than your behind, you increase the chances that he will hit your g-spot with his penis.

Just make sure you lock the door! If you have kids you will scar them for life if they walk in on that!!
giggle giggle Shocked There is just no way you can explain that away with a 'mommy had a sore tummy and daddy tried to help her make it better'
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replied April 21st, 2010
dear woof woof woes,

There are other ways of getting off. Have your man eat your coochie. Mine eats it till its raw. And I'll tell ya girls, you will never think about a doggie again.
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replied May 27th, 2011
Doggie Style
If you tried all the helpful hints and things still don't work, call me.
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replied October 12th, 2011
Doggy Style - Sex
Hey I need help :/ Whenever my boyfriend and I do doggy stlye I feel like I am going to pass wind so I make up something so we stop and go to another position
this has only started a few weeks ago I am so worried help!!!
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replied February 29th, 2012
Me and my Girlfriend loves doggy...I can give the best doggy since I'm approx 10.2inch long when erect and she just loves it me banging her from behind. Well i don't stop until we both cum.... Smile
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