As some of you might already know, I have been ttc. Been really confused lately too. From what it seems like from others the tender breast is usually really sore, more then just the tenderness before a period that some woman get. For me it is just that tenderness. Though I have never had this before unless I went 2 months with out a period. But I have been getting one every month, and it is not very regular when I get it, but its always at the end of each month. Wish I could find my old calendar, but remember I started on the 24th in nov, and the 29th in dec. I figure I have till around the 3rd of feb give or take some days before I should get my period. I have been experiencing cramping the last 2 days. The same cramping feeling I get when I am about to start my period, but I havn't gotten it yet. When you feel cramping when pregnant how long can this last, because I am still feeling it. It is off and on. I keep going to the bathroom to catch it before I make a mess, but I am not getting anything so far. This is day 3 of this period cramping. I usually get really oily, and bloated feeling before I start too, and so fair I don't feel either one. So far those are the only two things. I have felt light headed a couple times, but I have been under a lot of stress. And if I am right stress can cause dizziness and tiredness. So I don't know. The waiting game can really drive you crazy. I wish I knew weather I was or not.