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Q: Update....
asked by: Becky on October 25th, 2006
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I just want to say thank you so much for all your replies. I am touched that people would be kind enough to give me advice. I realise that what I did was stupid but I really just wanted to be close to him and wanted a way of feeling the bond we once had.

I have been up north for a few days (since saturday) in that time I did not text or call him once. He text me on monday asking how are the kids? And I didn't text back til yesterday. When I did all I said is that they are fine and i'm sure they are looking forward to being with daddy on saturday. He text back and I didn't reply even though I was dying to.

We came back today a bit early cause of family issues and I reluctantly had to ask him to get some formula for logan as there was none in. When I came home he was there. He has tidied up the whole flat and had done the backlog of washing.

I kept things neutral. He asked how my break went. I said fine. I went out with a few freinds etc (which was a lie but I want him to think I have a life!)

he then said- 'i really missed you when you were away and when I just saw you again my heart jumped into my mouth and I got that butterfly feeling I got when I first met you'

i refuse to just jump back to him- especially when this girl is still his girlfriend- so I kept it neutral still and said I hope everything is going well with them.

I told him I will see him on saturday as I am going to a halloween party with my mum and he is taking the kids.

I am going to stick to this and I am not going to call or text him. I'm just going to turn up on saturday.

I am hoping to move on but it is still bugging me what he said. Do you think he is getting intersted now that I am acting casual and unintrested?
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 25th, 2006
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It's too early to tell. Keep doing what you're doing and let him make his own mind up.

He's probably torn between his history with you and his new fling. There's .L.O.V.E with you, but new with her. Do you know what I mean?

Either that, or he's being an ass and is hoping you'll sleep with him. Confused

Keep on keepin' on, honey. We're proud of you!
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on October 25th, 2006
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I agree with .Laura. Keep doing the "ignoring" thing.

Don't let him sense that you miss him terribly. Let him think that you could actually care less about him or his girlfriend(prostitute homewrecking health forum)

give all of your attention, focus, and love to your babas!!! They are the ones that matter the most!!!!

You're doing great. I know it's hard and i'm pray for you that you have the strength to keep going!!

Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
replied on October 25th, 2006
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I'm proud of you beckster, keep doing what you're doing! I know it's hard but you can do it, and in the end I hope you get what you want! Good luck Smile were here for you!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 25th, 2006
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I would never, ever, .E.V.E.R sleep with a married man. Especially not one that *just* split with his wife and has two tiny kids at home. That's beyond disgusting.

His little girlfriend or whatever is a tramp. Or, as my mom says, a "trollop". That's .British for "tramp", right? Confused

.I hate homewreckers. If .Aaron and I seperated and someone started screwing him, I wouldn't care if we were never getting back together. I would slap that girl across the face with a frying pan. Just for *daring* to do it.
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HcoBrunette06
replied on October 25th, 2006
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Rofl laura, I didn't know you could get violent :p
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 25th, 2006
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I'm pretty protective when it comes to my family. I'm easy-going until someone f*cks with my husband or daughter. Then I go all psycho-b*tch!

Don't mess with me, man! I fight dirty! Wink
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HcoBrunette06
replied on October 25th, 2006
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Lol oh no!

Kids are such bullies now'adays, there are gonna be some dead first graders when aly gets into school :p watch out for mama!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 25th, 2006
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Haha that's not even far from the truth! I'm really afraid for the first time she comes to me crying if someone pushes her, because .I'm going to track down that little bugger and tear him a new one! Him *and* his mama!

I have *no shame* telling a little kid he did wrong in front of his mother. It's stupid how mad people get, but it's like, I wouldn't have to do it if you'd take care of it yourself, you know? Some people just don't care if their kids are bad.

No one touches my .Aly! Evil or Very Mad
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Becky
replied on October 25th, 2006
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Lol girls. I hate her and i've never met her! I call her diablo (sp?)

stupid cowhag!
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Melissa_20
replied on October 26th, 2006
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beckster06 wrote:
lol girls. I hate her and i've never met her! I call her diablo (sp?)

stupid cowhag!
I think thats the right spelling! Lol she is a tramp. Go ahead and keep on doing what your doing girl! He is just notiving you aren't 'missing' him even though you really are.Once you show signs of missing him he might go back to the way he was.Let everyhting play itself out.You'll see the truth one day and maybe you will move on who knows.I just know that you are one strong gal! : )
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on October 26th, 2006
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You know I have to disagree with the tramp bashing. She is a tramp but you know, he fell for her trollish ways. She is slutish by staying with a married man once she found out. That is wrong but you have to think that it takes two.....You guys are acting like it's all her fault. But it's not it's his mostly because he is the one with a wife and 2 babies. Maybe he is going off the hurt of loosing his baby but that doesn't make it right.
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Kia
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Sad but true, she couldn't do what she is if he wasn't willing.

On the flip side they both need a strong lecture in morals.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on October 26th, 2006
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They *both* need a serious ass whoopin!!!

I fight dirty too .Laura. Must be a .Louisiana thaaang! Hahahaha...Of course I fight dirty, I live in the *dirty south*!!!!

I have a butcher knife in the door of my car. But that's becasue I live in the homicide capital of the world....Good ole new orleans. The place where men cut up their ole ladies, cook them, then jump off the roof of a motel....Gotta love this place!!!

Sarah Neutral
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Kia
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Well you just detured me from bringing .Melia from visiting her twin sista.....


However I do agree that she does need a woopin if she is going to lower her self to that level. Its heartwrenching to hear about a chick like that....It gives us all a bad name. What about respect? Most wemon lower themselves like that now-a-days. It's just not right.

I fight dirty too. I loving fighting. Fighting in bars that have the 'friday night fights' for a bar tab. I win everytime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn't train for 18 years of my life to loose.......Lets all have a go at her...Knock some since into her. Wink
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Lol!! I only need it when we go into the city! Nothin but old fold in my neighborhood! Hahahah!!

Nooooo!! They've *got* to meet!!!!!!!
At least she'll be safe in my *car*!! Lmao

sarah
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Well, in that case.....Ok we'll i'll bring her. Lol i'll make sure I have my marble rolling pin in the other side pocket. Even though I am a 4th degree black belt...I dont' trust my own hands. Lol
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Melissa_20
replied on October 26th, 2006
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babymajic0506 wrote:
lol!! I only need it when we go into the city! Nothin but old fold in my neighborhood! Hahahah!!


Nooooo!! They've *got* to meet!!!!!!!

At least she'll be safe in my *car*!! Lmao

sarah
wish I could bring dalton to meet .Oni,he'd love it!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on October 26th, 2006
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Well, men will be men. I have zero tolerance for *anyone* who cheats, and personally would never take my man back if he ever did it. And .I've been with him over eight years.

But I have so little respect for any woman who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man who just split with his wife and is blowing off time with his kids to get laid.

New .Orleans *is* bad though! You have to be super careful out there. People will walk right up to your car at a red light and jack you! I'd have a knife handy too if I lived there.

Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there.
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