Becky
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Posted: 10-25-06 14:17pm
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I just want to say thank you so much for
all your replies. I am touched that
people would be kind enough to give me
advice. I realise that what I did was
stupid but I really just wanted to be
close to him and wanted a way of feeling
the bond we once had.
I have been up north for a few days (since
saturday) in that time I did not text or
call him once. He text me on monday
asking how are the kids? And I didn't
text back til yesterday. When I did all I
said is that they are fine and i'm sure
they are looking forward to being with
daddy on saturday. He text back and I
didn't reply even though I was dying to.
We came back today a bit early cause of
family issues and I reluctantly had to ask
him to get some formula for logan as there
was none in. When I came home he was
there. He has tidied up the whole flat
and had done the backlog of washing.
I kept things neutral. He asked how my
break went. I said fine. I went out with
a few freinds etc (which was a lie but I
want him to think I have a life!)
he then said- 'i really missed you when
you were away and when I just saw you
again my heart jumped into my mouth and I
got that butterfly feeling I got when I
first met you'
i refuse to just jump back to him-
especially when this girl is still his
girlfriend- so I kept it neutral still and
said I hope everything is going well with
them.
I told him I will see him on saturday as I
am going to a halloween party with my mum
and he is taking the kids.
I am going to stick to this and I am not
going to call or text him. I'm just going
to turn up on saturday.
I am hoping to move on but it is still
bugging me what he said. Do you think he
is getting intersted now that I am acting
casual and unintrested?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-25-06 14:32pm
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It's too early to tell. Keep doing what
you're doing and let him make his own mind
up.
He's probably torn between his history
with you and his new fling. There's
.L.O.V.E with you, but new with her. Do
you know what I mean?
Either that, or he's being an ass and is
hoping you'll sleep with him. 
Keep on keepin' on, honey. We're proud of
you!
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 10-25-06 14:39pm
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I agree with .Laura. Keep doing the
"ignoring" thing.
Don't let him sense that you miss him
terribly. Let him think that you could
actually care less about him or his
girlfriend(prostitute homewrecking health
forum)
give all of your attention, focus, and
love to your babas!!! They are the ones
that matter the most!!!!
You're doing great. I know it's hard and
i'm pray for you that you have the
strength to keep going!!
Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-25-06 15:29pm
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I'm proud of you beckster, keep doing what
you're doing! I know it's hard but you
can do it, and in the end I hope you get
what you want! Good luck  were here for you!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-25-06 15:34pm
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I would never, ever, .E.V.E.R sleep with a
married man. Especially not one that
*just* split with his wife and has two
tiny kids at home. That's beyond
disgusting.
His little girlfriend or whatever is a
tramp. Or, as my mom says, a "trollop".
That's .British for "tramp", right?
.I hate homewreckers. If .Aaron and I
seperated and someone started screwing
him, I wouldn't care if we were never
getting back together. I would slap that
girl across the face with a frying pan.
Just for *daring* to do it.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-25-06 15:41pm
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Rofl laura, I didn't know you could get
violent :p
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-25-06 15:43pm
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I'm pretty protective when it comes to my
family. I'm easy-going until someone
f*cks with my husband or daughter. Then I
go all psycho-b*tch!
Don't mess with me, man! I fight dirty!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-25-06 16:00pm
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Lol oh no!
Kids are such bullies now'adays, there are
gonna be some dead first graders when aly
gets into school :p watch out for mama!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-25-06 16:08pm
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Haha that's not even far from the truth!
I'm really afraid for the first time she
comes to me crying if someone pushes her,
because .I'm going to track down that
little bugger and tear him a new one! Him
*and* his mama!
I have *no shame* telling a little kid he
did wrong in front of his mother. It's
stupid how mad people get, but it's like,
I wouldn't have to do it if you'd take
care of it yourself, you know? Some
people just don't care if their kids are
bad.
No one touches my .Aly! 
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Becky
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Posted: 10-25-06 16:13pm
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Lol girls. I hate her and i've never met
her! I call her diablo (sp?)
stupid cowhag!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-26-06 10:23am
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| beckster06
wrote: | lol girls. I hate her and
i've never met her! I call her diablo
(sp?)
stupid
cowhag! |
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:30pm
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You know I have to disagree with the tramp
bashing. She is a tramp but you know, he
fell for her trollish ways. She is
slutish by staying with a married man once
she found out. That is wrong but you
have to think that it takes two.....You
guys are acting like it's all her fault.
But it's not it's his mostly because he is
the one with a wife and 2 babies. Maybe
he is going off the hurt of loosing his
baby but that doesn't make it right.
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:35pm
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Sad but true, she couldn't do what she is
if he wasn't willing.
On the flip side they both need a strong
lecture in morals.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:41pm
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They *both* need a serious ass whoopin!!!
I fight dirty too .Laura. Must be a
.Louisiana thaaang! Hahahaha...Of course
I fight dirty, I live in the *dirty
south*!!!!
I have a butcher knife in the door of my
car. But that's becasue I live in the
homicide capital of the world....Good ole
new orleans. The place where men cut up
their ole ladies, cook them, then jump off
the roof of a motel....Gotta love this
place!!!
Sarah 
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Kia
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:48pm
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Well you just detured me from bringing
.Melia from visiting her twin sista.....
However I do agree that she does need a
woopin if she is going to lower her self
to that level. Its heartwrenching to
hear about a chick like that....It gives
us all a bad name. What about respect?
Most wemon lower themselves like that
now-a-days. It's just not right.
I fight dirty too. I loving fighting.
Fighting in bars that have the 'friday
night fights' for a bar tab. I win
everytime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn't
train for 18 years of my life to
loose.......Lets all have a go at
her...Knock some since into her.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:50pm
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Lol!! I only need it when we go into the
city! Nothin but old fold in my
neighborhood! Hahahah!!
Nooooo!! They've *got* to meet!!!!!!!
At least she'll be safe in my *car*!!
Lmao
sarah
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:57pm
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Well, in that case.....Ok we'll i'll bring
her. Lol i'll make sure I have my marble
rolling pin in the other side pocket.
Even though I am a 4th degree black
belt...I dont' trust my own hands. Lol
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-26-06 13:59pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | lol!! I only need it when
we go into the city! Nothin but old fold
in my neighborhood! Hahahah!!
Nooooo!! They've *got* to meet!!!!!!!
At least she'll be safe in my *car*!!
Lmao
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-26-06 14:06pm
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Well, men will be men. I have zero
tolerance for *anyone* who cheats, and
personally would never take my man back if
he ever did it. And .I've been with him
over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
New .Orleans *is* bad though! You have to
be super careful out there. People will
walk right up to your car at a red light
and jack you! I'd have a knife handy too
if I lived there.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live there.
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