I'm 20 now and still a "virgin" for one main reason, not that I want to get laid or whatever anytime soon but I just got into the most serious relationship i'ver ever been in and I love this girl. It hurts everytime i'm fooling around and my foreskin is pulled back while i'm erect, and it really pulls me out of the mood for anything related to fourplay. I got my first blowjob a while back and my foreskin had to be pulled back but it felt good after the initial pull. Is there any way of avoiding this pain because i've heard and read so much on the discomfort it can give but the thing is I know tons of guys who still have theirs. My girl and I have been talking about sex alot and if the "first time" is anytime soon, I want it to be pain-free. :d