I don't know if this will help you or not but I hav a neuro, pain situation, along with vision problems, dealing with neuro and iuse morphine and other meds which sometimes makes me nauseated and I use promethazine to help with the nausea, I know that when I was 1st on it it kind of knocked me out but now since I have been on it for awhile it does relax me, I am not a dr but had your dr tried something like valium to possibly relax your system, maybe something like that might help, I take that too, their is also some anti-nauseation stuff that wal-mart carries(equate) it is their brand and it is over the counter, I don't know about the dry eyes part on any of it, sometimes you can talk to a pharmacist, you also might check out the natural herb shop. I hope you can find something that can help you soon!
Good luck!