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Q: Cheating
asked by: Stugling on October 18th, 2006
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This is a on going question with me (but I know what I am going to do). This is a poll for cheaters, if you know for sure that your spouse or boy/girl friend was cheating and lying to you. Would you take them back. Be truthful and use the point in your life you are at right now. (kids, just married, long term relationship, and etc.) I am just curious about other peoples feelings on this.
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izzysue
replied on August 18th, 2007
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Well no.
Because the trust would be gone and without trust there's know relationship.
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Willa Weintraub
replied on August 20th, 2007
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I have before. after I went through all that, I woudl have to say no. I would never take them back again. If someone truly loves you, they don't cheat.
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change is good
replied on August 20th, 2007
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i have taken my wife back. we are working on the trust issues. things are going good so far. i think it is much easier for the cheater to forget than it is for the one cheated on. but that is true with everything. the guilty are ready to move on when the victim has a hard time forgetting and forgiving and for letting go. by no means am i a saint. i'm no cheater. i have done other wrong things and this is why i can speak from both sides of the coin.
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DPantelones
replied on August 22nd, 2007
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Re: Cheating
Stugling wrote:
This is a on going question with me (but I know what I am going to do). This is a poll for cheaters, if you know for sure that your spouse or boy/girl friend was cheating and lying to you. Would you take them back. Be truthful and use the point in your life you are at right now. (kids, just married, long term relationship, and etc.) I am just curious about other peoples feelings on this.


I have 2 small children, found out my wife of 12 years cheated and I moved out soon after confirming it. Never hesitated, I knew I could never trust her again (she lied about the affair, promised it was over once she couldn't lie about it anymore, then lied when busted again)....without trust, for me anyway, there can be no relationship....I would never lower myself to that.
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Painfulcard
replied on August 25th, 2007
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i might take her back. This would depend on if she loved him more then me. If she apologized she can be forgiven.
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