I am an otherwise healthy, physically fit 24-year-old male that has suffered from the same problem for years. As a result of this problem I have never been able to have intercourse.
Upon mild arousal, whether it be alone or with a female, I immediately begin leaking out pre-ejaculate. The amount is extremely excessive and I am positive that it is pre-ejaculate. This happens without even having an erection. It just continues to leak until my pants are soaked and i'm sexually exhausted...Unable to obtain or maintain an erection.
I have been told by countless doctors that the problem is psychological...But that is a ridiculous answer. My guess is that they don't have a solution to the problem so they resort to the generic "psychological" answer. I can simply hold hands with a girl and be completely relaxed and content...Without even having sex on my mind...And pre-ejaculate begins to leak out.
I decided to do some research on the internet and found that the problem may be due to a weakened pc muscle caused by excessive masturbation. I have masturbated probably 7-10 times/week for the last 10 years. I started taking fish oil, borage oil, and l-arginine daily and reduced my masturbation frequency to 2-3 times/week. I have been following this routine for about 6 weeks now and while my sex drive seems to be slightly better and I have been getting more spontaneous erections I see no improvement in the pre-ejaculate leaking issues.
I'm positive there are other people out there with this problem. I have searched the boards and found several posts even here on ehealth regarding this issue. None of the people seemed to receive a satisfactory response. I've seen terms such as "precum flooding" used here as well. Is that what this is? Are there any suggestions? This has been going on for probably 6 years now and doesn't seem to be getting better. Doctors have no answer for me and it's destroying my life! I don't know where to turn.
Thanks for taking the time to read through this and I would really appreciate any input on the subject. Suggestions or possible solutions...As well as any input from other people that have suffered/are suffering from this problem. At this point i'm willing to try just about anything. I refuse to believe that there is no solution and that I am doomed to live with this problem forever.