One minute I can fee ok although I always have a feeling of not been in control over my own life, I am a mom of 3 small children aged 1,3,5 and married my depression?? Is causing problems with my relationship with my husband and I do not have any sex drive what so ever I have spoke to my gp and I am on venlafaxine but still have very low periods of despair and feel like there is no point to my life I lost my mom in my early 20's and still feel like I am grieving, I question my competence as a mother and most of the time feel I cant accomplish anything even the housework please help this has been going on for nearly 4 years