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autumn16
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Determining the Father
Posted: 10-16-06 02:30am
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I am pregnant but is really confused right
now coz I do not know who's the father.
My last period started sept 11. I had a
one night stand on sept 22 after some
drinks. We had protected sex. I had sex
with my boyfriend on sept 23, without any
protection. Doctor says my estimated due
date is june 18. Can someone tell me
who's the father?
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Jules
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Posted: 10-16-06 02:53am
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Well obviously no-one here can tell you
100% for certain but I would put money on
it being your boyfriend since you used
protection with the one night stand.
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arcadia
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Posted: 10-16-06 02:55am
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It could honestly be either of them.
Since you only had sex with the different
guys 1 day apart. Since you had
unprotected sex with your boyfriend, it's
more likely that it's his.. But the only
way to find out for sure is to have the
dna tested after the baby is born.
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alexa84
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Posted: 10-16-06 12:28pm
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Yea in my opinion it would be your
boyfriend.
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megums1211
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Posted: 10-16-06 12:37pm
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Not trying to stir things up, but I can't
resist 
.... Maybe, (just a thought) if people
wouldn't cheat on their spouses and
boyfriends, and would just stay with one
partner... Maybe no one would have to
worry about a dna test... But anywho...
It's probably your guy since you didn't
use protection with him... But in the
case that it's not... How will you
explain that to him ?
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Emma2
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Posted: 10-16-06 13:26pm
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The two enconters are too close together
to determine....Dna is your only
option..Next time u might wanna try using
protection with one night stands.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-16-06 13:52pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | ..Next time u might wanna
try using protection with one night
stands. |
she did smarty! :p
but why risk cheating. . . .People
who cheat are just damn greedy!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 10-16-06 14:10pm
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People who cheat should be castrated.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-16-06 14:37pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | people who cheat should be
castrated. |
lmao,sandra,you think everyone should be
castrated,lol
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megums1211
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Posted: 10-16-06 14:49pm
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I guess I wasn't the only one thinking
about damning the cheaters... Yay for the
castration sandra!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 10-16-06 17:36pm
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Yeah I hate when people cheat on others I
dont understand it....
See this is how I determined the father of
my baby...... I've only touched / had sex
with my boyfriend im with now... Nobody
else in my whole life, so there is
absolutly no way it can be somebody
elses... Try not cheating next time and
you wont have to worry.. But it does
sound like it would be your bfs baby...
But to make sure I would tell the doc and
ask for a dna test later
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megums1211
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Posted: 10-17-06 18:13pm
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Lol ohmommy, its like tell the doctor "um,
i'm too horny to have sex with only my
boyfriend so now we have to get a dna test
b/c I don't know which one is the
father"... I couldn't imagine cheating on
my hubby, let alone telling him i'm having
a baby with the one night stand...
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Emma2
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Posted: 10-17-06 19:29pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | ..Next time u might wanna
try using protection with one night
stands. |
she did smarty! :p
but why risk cheating. . .
.People who cheat are just damn
greedy! |
oh I missed that part!! Then what the
hell is she even asking this stupid
question for? Gosh im getting really
annoyed with people who have useless
question!
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-17-06 19:33pm
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*asks a useless question*
hahaha! 
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lolita11
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confused about who the father of my baby is
Posted: 10-05-08 06:58am
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Ok I had unprotected sex with my
exboyfriend on April 9 and he definitely
came inside me we were expecting to be
pregnant but I got my period april 24 (it
was very late) so then I thought I wasn't
pregnant. Then we broke up and on May 11 I
unprotected sex with another guy but we
were more careful that he didn't came
inside me. I know... bad idea, actually
the worst idea for protection. Then I went
to the doctor on June 19th and they told
me I was 8 weeks pregnant according to the
date of my last period and my baby would
be born Jan. 29 so I thought it was my
ex's. But then at the ultrasound they told
me that the baby was actually going to be
born Feb. 5. So now I really don't know
because if it was my ex's would it be
possible to be pregnant 3 weeks later
after we did the deed? Or if it's the
other guy's how could I be pregnant a week
before we actually had sex? Someone please
help!
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