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Q: Rude.

asked by: ThriftyGal on October 10th, 2006

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I'm so seriously sick of people. I don't understand why females seem to feed of other girls misfortunes so much. I just don't understand why people want to surround themselves with so much negativity. It just really confuses me.

People have been saying horrible things. My *friends*. Well I really don't want friends like this and would rather poke out my eyes than pretend to be friends with anyone of these girls anymore.

They say things like "tanya should just have killed her baby" and "what a smart choice! Giving her baby away so it can know it's real parents didn't even want it or love it! It's better off dead". And then making stuff up like "yeah she's just giving her baby away so she can do drugs". Things i've never said, things that aren't true, things they couldn't possibly know unless they were me! It's just so horrible that they discuss my childs life in such a way. It really disgusts me! I really want to believe there are good people in this world but seriously, everyone seems like a selfish health questions. I don't know why people are so concerned with my life. It's freaken crazy. It's flattering that they spend their free time speculating over my life, but also confusing. Why do girls feel like what goes on in my uterus is any business of theirs? Well I guess the point of this is I really don't understand why people want to be so cruel... Mostly I don't get mad, but come on, how cruel is it to say that my child should have been killed. Why are they so ignorant. Why do they act like i'm such a bad person, if I wanted to go out and party, if I was such a bad person, why am I going through 9 months of pregnancy just to do something as extremely painful as giving her to another family? I've never been in a fight, and I almost never get angry about anything. Anyone can say anything else about me, and I would just laugh and agree. But I seriously think I want to beat some faces off when this pregnancy is all over. I guess people saying these things just gets me really down, especially since going to school has already become such a chore without people saying I should have just had an abortion.

Replies(9)

ThriftyGal

replied on October 11th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

I know it doesn't matter what they say, and people will talk no matter what. But it's so surprising how eager people were to jump on this like some hungry scavengers. And I seriously think when i'm done being pregnant I will have to beat the crap out of someone. I'll probably be all sad right after anyways, so it won't be hard to lose my temper and do it and not care.

And i'm sure it will make me feel better.

I wish I had some freaken pizza to eat! Or thanks giving left overs or something. Man I want potatoes, and pumpkin pie.

mum2bubba

replied on October 11th, 2006

Experienced User

I'm very sorry for what you are going through, I think it is a brave theing to do to give your baby up you should feel proud of yourself, in time you will find good, honest, decent friends and these "so called friends" will hopefully get whats coming to them. Good luck with everything.

Melissa_20

replied on October 11th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry tanya.I think dalicia gave you the best advise anyone could have right now.Just ignore them,cause they have no idea what your going through right now.They are all still a bunch of little kids that have nothing better to do.

So have you decided about the adoption thing?Are you still gonna go for it?

diamondsz

replied on October 11th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Personally I think your friends are hypocrites oh whoever saying "caca" what is wrong with a teenager partying??? That is what their supposed to do that is what it is to be a teen have fun without putting someone elses life at risk.

What your doing is beyond mature but hey not every is happy eve if you give the your pie to eat

Purple_Butterflies

replied on October 11th, 2006

Experienced User

Your giving up your baby to another family? caca that takes guts. When people are saying caca about your decision its only because their jealous that thwey dont have half the balls you do. Because they know they would never be brave enough to make such a choice. Your better then them. Dont worry about what they say, you think your doing the right thing and thats all that matters. You deserve a pizza and a couple of pies.

ThriftyGal

replied on October 11th, 2006

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*dalicia*bray* wrote:

yeah tanya, I wish we lived close to eachother because i'd fatten you up! Your baby will come out weighing 11lbs!

lmao you know my friend kirstin that was pregnant? You know her baby weighed 11lbs and something ounces? I was so shocked...I was like holy crap girl what did you eat!?

was she big or did this just happen?

I know that what everyone is saying here is true, and that I have no reason to even worry cause i'm doing a great thing. But that doesn't stop me from wanting to beat the crap out of them. And telling myself I will when I can makes me happy.

Mabel

replied on October 11th, 2006

Moderator

What your friends are saying is immature. They have no idea what you are going through and what led you to the decision you have made for yourself and your child.

The ironic thing is this: they are doing the exact same things you did to get pregnant. The only difference is that they aren't pregnant so they don't have to make the hard life decisions you are. Next time one of them opens their mouth to say something cruel to or about you, remind them that when they have to make the kind of decisions you have, you'll gladly listen to their 'opinion' - but until then, maybe they should shut up.

liwikiwi

replied on October 11th, 2006

Experienced User

ingi wrote:

what your friends are saying is immature. They have no idea what you are going through and what led you to the decision you have made for yourself and your child.

The ironic thing is this: they are doing the exact same things you did to get pregnant. The only difference is that they aren't pregnant so they don't have to make the hard life decisions you are. Next time one of them opens their mouth to say something cruel to or about you, remind them that when they have to make the kind of decisions you have, you'll gladly listen to their 'opinion' - but until then, maybe they should shut up.

amen sista! Lol
...On a side note, I remember you saying you didn't want the dad to get the baby...What ever came of that, did you find a way to make sure he/she goes to a good home instead of his??

ThriftyGal

replied on October 11th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

I'm not worried about anyone touching me, no one would on her part anyway. Now I just need to learn how to punch hahaha. I bet it won't hurt her cause i'm a big weak vagina.

Ingi that is how I feel, they can't talk about it once they've actually experienced it. I'll do what I want with what is living in my uterus, and they can do whatever the hell they want with what is in theirs.

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