Hi,
i must say I agree largely with
onesmallcookie's advice. At the moment
you are allowing him to play games with
you. So he has all the power and you are
kept dangling on a string like a puppet.
If you take back the control you may risk
losing the relationship but what you will
regain is your pride and self respect and,
believe me, these things are a lot more
important in the long run.
Force his hand. Ask him to make a
decision on what he wants to do. If he
can't do that then walk away. But have
enough faith in yourself to know that
whatever happens you will get through
it.
At the end of the day if someone truly
loves you they should not enjoy torturing
you. And you should not keep torturing
yourself.
Try to weigh up the positives and
negatives of your current position. If
the negatives are outweighing to positives
then it's definitely time to call it a
day. Find yourself a decent guy, there
are a lot more of us about than you might
think.
Hope everything works out for you. Take
care...
