Went over my girlfriends house the other night and we hung out and watched a movie and shot some pool....All was well, I stayed all night there and in the morning we got up and we had sex.

I had to work that day but didnt have to go in till a little later....I am normally gone very early in the morning but not this day.

I am out with her in the kitchen about an hour later and her phone rings....She said hmmmm it says some kind of storage place on my caller id and she answers it.

It was a guy on the other end talking to her and I could hear the whole conversation because the phone was on so loud! He asked her is she wanted to go out to breakfast and they had small talk and he asked if he can stop over on his way to work.......And she said yes while I was standing right there!

I could not believe this was happeneing while I was right there! I asked who that was.....And she said it was her sister! And she was askin her if she wanted to go out to eat. I called her out on this and said what the hell are you talkin about that was a guy on the phone and said I heard the whole conversation, well she said I was crazy and that it was her sister.

I sat down at the table then all the sudden she said "well I am gonna take a shower and go to the store are you leaving for work now"? I knew some guy was coming over and I said no I am gonna hang out a while because I do not have to work yet.....She starts getting very nervous and was pretty much pushing me out the door and practically begging me to leave....... So I did

i get in my car and back out of the driveway and take off and I pass a white truck with some guy in it on the way and I just knew that was the guy going to her house.....I circled around just to make sure and sure enough he pulled in her driveway and got out.

I couldnt believe this was happening, I have only been with her for about 4 months but this was just crazy! I immediately called her up when I seen the truck and asked her what the hell was going on...She said she would call me back in an hour.

We talked about the whole thing for a long time and the best answer I got from her about this guy is that he is a "prospect" and now all the sudden she doesnt wanna be tied down and doesnt want a serious relationship, supposedly nothing has happened with this guy yet.....So she says.

I am very tore up about this and I cant stop thinking about it, she says she still wants to see me but she just doesnt wanna have a serious relationship and she wants to take it day by day......Whatever that means. I told her I wanna be with her but I want her to only be with me....And she said no.

This woman has told me she loved me and we have spent a ton of time together.....I just feel so lost.